"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thephilosopher9

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ever wonder why football players are so buff? Ever go to the weight room, see them trying to lift 200 lbs. Not really succeeding, and you thinking they are dumb for even trying, while you, though its only 160, are going through the strict range of motion? the answer: isometrics. I did some research, and found mass increases by 15-40% when compared to regular or dynamic exercises. The negatives of course are the higher chances of injury, and less muscular endurance, but the point is more mass. Unless your a fighter, and mass is somewhat deterimental, this will be a big tip. I'm really excited bout it myself. Point: in the weightroom, shove on your max on your last set, and really try to pump it. Do more research on your own, this is just meant as an eye opener...mainly targeted towards lost high schoolers. Yes, yes like me at one point...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wouldn't a footballer want more functional mass? Whats the point of being big and bulky if some guy half his size pushes him out of the way?
 

Supremo

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If your school isn't totally ghetto and you aren't a total loser... go talk with the football players and/or coaches and figure out what plan they are working out on. There is specific plans for specific things.

Like:
Getting bulked up
Getting toned
Getting muscle endurance
Getting explosiveness
Getting overall strength

And that's just general stuff.
For tennis I have a specific plan that focuses on getting toned and increasing quickness...
For lacrosse I have a plan that focuses on speed, explosiveness, and core strength.

Just look it up man... don't think you've found THE workout plan. It ALL depends on what you want to do.
 

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First off, i hate the phrase "toned". Tone is just adding some mass, losing some fat. lol.

However, I don't think your looking at the whole picture. These football players aren't always big and buff. The ones that are, tend to be the stronger, more athletic kids who don't pull stupid sh*t to get the weight up. They push themselves, but aren't crazy and stack on more weight than they need.

As a former football player, I would be inclined to say that a football player would be focusing more on explosive strength, with a full range of motion on many exercises.
 

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If you are really interested in all of that, you might want to visit us in the health and fitness section where we talk about all of that stuff.

I'm not a football player, but i've seen high school kids that are, and aren't as strong as you think they are. They have a huge ego cause they play football, but nothing is special about them.

Some are amazing (football players in general) while some are TERRIBLE.

You want to see real stuff, watch a team from the NFL go through stuff. They do things you'll never see or hear in high school, but they also have some of the top CSCS and NSCA coaches as well, as to where most high schools get Joe schmoe who THINKS he knows what he is doing just cause his title is football coach.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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