"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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High School Sexting Case

zekko

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I think this case shows how uptight a lot of people in the US are about sexuality:

A high school quarterback and his girlfriend are found in possession of explicit pictures of each other on their cell phones. This is a felony and if they hadn't plea bargained the charges down they both would have had to register as sex offenders. Imagine how that would mess their lives up for the rest of their lives. What a stupid law.

Even more ludicrous, the guy had the nude pictures of HIMSELF on the phone that he had made, and it is apparently a felony for him to have those, because they are pictures of a minor. Yet as a 16 year old, he is charged as an adult. Sometimes it's hard to understand western culture.

http://www.fayobserver.com/news/local/suspended-jack-britt-quarterback-accused-of-texting-sexually-graphic-pictures/article_66414597-5155-5a84-a19d-e7bb3111a3af.html
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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piranha45

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hahaha... yeah. Its frustrating to think about. Irrational on every level. But we persist in maintaining it.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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These prosecutors are like cops. They just need to get a few "convictions" so it looks like they're doing their jobs. So they go for the easiest ones.

Getting folks to plea bargain is an easy way to get a conviction with little effort.

However, this is the part I'm wondering about:

It is not known how the pictures were discovered, but no search warrant appeared to have been issued for Copening's phone.
Somebody must have forwarded a pic to the wrong person.

Number one rule:

Don't Get Caught
 
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