"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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High School Sexting Case

zekko

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I think this case shows how uptight a lot of people in the US are about sexuality:

A high school quarterback and his girlfriend are found in possession of explicit pictures of each other on their cell phones. This is a felony and if they hadn't plea bargained the charges down they both would have had to register as sex offenders. Imagine how that would mess their lives up for the rest of their lives. What a stupid law.

Even more ludicrous, the guy had the nude pictures of HIMSELF on the phone that he had made, and it is apparently a felony for him to have those, because they are pictures of a minor. Yet as a 16 year old, he is charged as an adult. Sometimes it's hard to understand western culture.

http://www.fayobserver.com/news/local/suspended-jack-britt-quarterback-accused-of-texting-sexually-graphic-pictures/article_66414597-5155-5a84-a19d-e7bb3111a3af.html
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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piranha45

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hahaha... yeah. Its frustrating to think about. Irrational on every level. But we persist in maintaining it.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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These prosecutors are like cops. They just need to get a few "convictions" so it looks like they're doing their jobs. So they go for the easiest ones.

Getting folks to plea bargain is an easy way to get a conviction with little effort.

However, this is the part I'm wondering about:

It is not known how the pictures were discovered, but no search warrant appeared to have been issued for Copening's phone.
Somebody must have forwarded a pic to the wrong person.

Number one rule:

Don't Get Caught
 
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