"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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it seems there is an infestation of idiots with useless advice... bumping up stupid threads that just died... and other things that are ruining that section.

is there ANYTHING that could be done? i don't know if they're trolls, but their names are not unique at all... and it seems like the same person is using the same style of names. examples such as: mybackhurts, slightoverbite, bigbacneproblem, lvl20darkmage, myhandhurts. some are real, some are names i made up just now.

do SOMETHING!

they're either trolls, are plain idiots like GrandWizardAlamar
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ElStud

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Speak for yourself, you're one of them.
 

TheVirtualMind

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Michele, trust me, you are preaching to the choir. There is only so much us (mods) can do. We can close redundant, useless, pointless, and just plain idiot threads, but we can't force people to learn.

We are trying our best though.

ElStud - Warning for harassment.
 

ElStud

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TheVirtualMind said:
Michele, trust me, you are preaching to the choir. There is only so much us (mods) can do. We can close redundant, useless, pointless, and just plain idiot threads, but we can't force people to learn.

We are trying our best though.

ElStud - Warning for harassment.
I didn't harass him. I'm telling it like it is, he always comes up in my threads posting useless stuff that has nothing to do with the topic and he calls a bunch of others trolls. I just think it's sort of hypocritical.
 

TheVirtualMind

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ElStud said:
I didn't harass him. I'm telling it like it is, he always comes up in my threads posting useless stuff that has nothing to do with the topic and he calls a bunch of others trolls. I just think it's sort of hypocritical.
Considering the people he was calling ARE trolls...

I just cleaned up the HS forum a bit.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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