"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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high school is the best places to meet girls

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i dont know if i am right but i went to college with my friend and i didnt see as many good girls as in high school.. i am senior and i am an average guy. and id ont know if i should start talking to all this girls.. just as friends....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Evidently you went to the wrong college.
 

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I'm still in high schol and even I know the answer...

In college you don't have to ask her this: "You wanna go to my place, my parents won't be home for a while."
 

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College is the best place. Most guys meet their wives there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
College is the best place. Most guys meet their wives there.
They also meet their first STD and first "oh crap!" pregnancy scare.
 

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Originally posted by eternal
They also meet their first STD and first "oh crap!" pregnancy scare.
Only in America.... ;)
 

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but ia m pretty sure that in college most of the girls are more loose. i n high school you could find more virgins girls than in college.
 

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Originally posted by hacx
but ia m pretty sure that in college most of the girls are more loose. i n high school you could find more virgins girls than in college.
in college more girls r eager to bone...we have "virgins" here too
 

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i guess u right!!!!!!!!!!!!!and probably they have more experience.........
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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