"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Demon Wolf

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I got the # of one of my co workers. She is about a 7 out of 10. She talks to me a lot and laughs at most of what I say. I am a junior in college and she is a senior in high school.

I am interested in going out with her, but since she is still in high school I am hesitant to call and ask at the moment. THe consenting age in NV is 16yrs.
I think it is kinda weird me being in college and her being in HS and me going out with her.

I am like hey this chick is into me, but she is only like 17 and I am 22. I should just be friends with her.

I would appreciate some advice on what to do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rhoto

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Do what you want, but be smart.

And remember the mindset of a 17 year old.
 

amoka

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What happened to all the college chicks?
 

Supremo

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1/2 your age plus 8 is how I'm gonna play it out of high school.

You are 22, so half of that is 11, plus 8 is 19.
I dunno man.
Even if you waited a year til she's 18 and a senior, you'd be 23...

Being in high school right now, I know that all the girls who are dating guys that are that much older (and there's not many) aren't really thought of that highly.

Do whatever you feel is right. But honestly man, theres many more fish in the sea (ones closer to your age, and ones that are at the age of consent, etc.)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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IMO, theres nothing wrong with it,coz i've had relationships with HS girls and its all great...

HS girls are dying to have a college BF
 

Demon Wolf

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I know high schoolers look down on college students dating high schoolers. I am not not sure I want to date this chick. Does not mean I can't be friends with her. At least I would be getting more experience with females. I have been studying with a girl in my chem class, I don't have an interest in the one from class, but she seems cool.
 

Lord Shinra

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Do as you like. Kick the tires a bit before you do anything though.

I know high schoolers look down on college students dating high schoolers.
Big deal, a couple of tools are gonna be pissy. Pfft. If I found this out, I'd date the chick just to piss them off.
 
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Go for it if it was legal in my state I would. But don't get too attached for anything serious.

My friend is 35 w/ 5 kids and he just got engaged to a hot 21 year old.

What are the chances of that working out?
 

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If you like her and she's legal then go for it. Who gives a rat's arse what classroom you sit in during the day? It's what she wants to do at night that should interest you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hehe highschool girls are so easy, tried some of these advanced methods such as the mystery, nlp etc... but these are just lil immateur girlie girls.. u have to act cool and confident and start hitting on them then build comfort and (MISSION ACCOMPLISHED)
 

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if she's legal then shes fair game..
but I'd wait another yr until she's out of hs.

is she that hot?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Like someone else said... She is 17 and is immature. I wouldn't be looking for a LTR with her. Just hit it for a couples weeks and throw her away like trash.
 
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