"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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High school girl

Demon Wolf

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I got the # of one of my co workers. She is about a 7 out of 10. She talks to me a lot and laughs at most of what I say. I am a junior in college and she is a senior in high school.

I am interested in going out with her, but since she is still in high school I am hesitant to call and ask at the moment. THe consenting age in NV is 16yrs.
I think it is kinda weird me being in college and her being in HS and me going out with her.

I am like hey this chick is into me, but she is only like 17 and I am 22. I should just be friends with her.

I would appreciate some advice on what to do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rhoto

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Do what you want, but be smart.

And remember the mindset of a 17 year old.
 

amoka

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What happened to all the college chicks?
 

Supremo

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1/2 your age plus 8 is how I'm gonna play it out of high school.

You are 22, so half of that is 11, plus 8 is 19.
I dunno man.
Even if you waited a year til she's 18 and a senior, you'd be 23...

Being in high school right now, I know that all the girls who are dating guys that are that much older (and there's not many) aren't really thought of that highly.

Do whatever you feel is right. But honestly man, theres many more fish in the sea (ones closer to your age, and ones that are at the age of consent, etc.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gherald

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IMO, theres nothing wrong with it,coz i've had relationships with HS girls and its all great...

HS girls are dying to have a college BF
 

Demon Wolf

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I know high schoolers look down on college students dating high schoolers. I am not not sure I want to date this chick. Does not mean I can't be friends with her. At least I would be getting more experience with females. I have been studying with a girl in my chem class, I don't have an interest in the one from class, but she seems cool.
 

Lord Shinra

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Do as you like. Kick the tires a bit before you do anything though.

I know high schoolers look down on college students dating high schoolers.
Big deal, a couple of tools are gonna be pissy. Pfft. If I found this out, I'd date the chick just to piss them off.
 
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Go for it if it was legal in my state I would. But don't get too attached for anything serious.

My friend is 35 w/ 5 kids and he just got engaged to a hot 21 year old.

What are the chances of that working out?
 

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If you like her and she's legal then go for it. Who gives a rat's arse what classroom you sit in during the day? It's what she wants to do at night that should interest you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hehe highschool girls are so easy, tried some of these advanced methods such as the mystery, nlp etc... but these are just lil immateur girlie girls.. u have to act cool and confident and start hitting on them then build comfort and (MISSION ACCOMPLISHED)
 

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if she's legal then shes fair game..
but I'd wait another yr until she's out of hs.

is she that hot?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Like someone else said... She is 17 and is immature. I wouldn't be looking for a LTR with her. Just hit it for a couples weeks and throw her away like trash.
 
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