"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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High school friend's recontacted me

bob2007

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I suppose the ball's in my court now I suppose. This girl I used to like / may have liked me in high school's recontacted me through hi5.com (kinda like myspace w/ more restrictions I think). Now, I'm graduating from university now, 3 years later.

We were never friends, but there my have been some attraction, she flirted a lot with me (I was afc). So I think I have a decent chance with her. I've got a pic on that site too - I suppose she likes what she sees.

Anyway, here's what I've thought about proceeding.

1. Give her my msn on the hi5.com site.
2. Talk on msn, build rapport, get number
3. Call and ask her out.
4. All before end of June when I get the house all to myself for a week.

I think this way, I can build rapport and then get number as opposed to just asking for it out of the blue.

Any advice would be good. Especially rapport building convo, we never had any good conversations that I recall from highschool. It was always boring fluff talk.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bob2007

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For sure, but, as I said we were never friends so I don't know why she would bother contacting me for other reasons.

Man's gotta plan : ).
 

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I'd just get her contact info and "catch up" in person. If you like what you see and there is some chemistry then ask her out after that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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