"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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High School: Escalation

Snow Plowman

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This is my last post for today day is about to start...

Whatever you do don't wuss out and don't even look for IOIs.

Best bet is to always be escalating and seeing how far you can go. When she stops you then you just chill at whatever area she is comfortable with and then try again later. If she is still there then its still on and you just need to pump buying temperature. (Attraction)

If you don't try to escalate your going to lose her anyway because if you don't escalate you'll be in the friend zone. Best way to look at it is "It's impossible to fail".

You have to believe that your kino will work. Not a half ass belief, when you go in and grab a girl you can go in hesistating and doubting yourself. You must be assertive and just put your arm around her.

Get used to hugging all the girls and they should all be comfortable with you touching them and they should be touching back.

Kissing can happen quickier than you think. My only two ways of kiss closing that I do is...
1. "If you were in kissing school...what would your teacher rate you kiss on a scale of 1 to 10?...lets find out"
2. Triangular gaze - I only do this now, Basically you look at her eyes then her lips, then back to her eyes and then lips. You should slow down your speaking and get closer

Most of your intimate escalation should be where no one can see it happening, that way it doesn't trigger her social conditioning. Thats why its good to try and get isolated or semi isolated. But it mainly so longs the touching can't be seen. You can touch her legs under the table, etc.

Basically if you don't escalate your fuked. So its better to always escalate then not get sh!t all the time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Infraction

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2 steps forword 1 step back.
A chick came and sat bext to me, she started to lay on me. I escalted until she wasn't comfort able and she didn't let me keep on. I moved 7 feet away and after 5 min's she came and she let me escatle (from the point we "stopped"). It works like wonders.
 

Snow Plowman

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Infraction said:
2 steps forword 1 step back.
A chick came and sat bext to me, she started to lay on me. I escalted until she wasn't comfort able and she didn't let me keep on. I moved 7 feet away and after 5 min's she came and she let me escatle (from the point we "stopped"). It works like wonders.
I used to have a sticking point with escalating so I'd like escalate pretty hard in the beginning and then stop and keep it limited. Then I'd usually pump BT and they'd always tend to kino me and almost get pissed that I'm not escalating anymore and they'd leave. But now I kind of use that as a little thing to get the girls to chase me. Almost as if I'm non-verbally playing hard to get. I had this one girl pinching my ass and slapping it, and I still wasn't putting out. It was driving her nuts.
 
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