"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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High School: Escalation

Snow Plowman

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This is my last post for today day is about to start...

Whatever you do don't wuss out and don't even look for IOIs.

Best bet is to always be escalating and seeing how far you can go. When she stops you then you just chill at whatever area she is comfortable with and then try again later. If she is still there then its still on and you just need to pump buying temperature. (Attraction)

If you don't try to escalate your going to lose her anyway because if you don't escalate you'll be in the friend zone. Best way to look at it is "It's impossible to fail".

You have to believe that your kino will work. Not a half ass belief, when you go in and grab a girl you can go in hesistating and doubting yourself. You must be assertive and just put your arm around her.

Get used to hugging all the girls and they should all be comfortable with you touching them and they should be touching back.

Kissing can happen quickier than you think. My only two ways of kiss closing that I do is...
1. "If you were in kissing school...what would your teacher rate you kiss on a scale of 1 to 10?...lets find out"
2. Triangular gaze - I only do this now, Basically you look at her eyes then her lips, then back to her eyes and then lips. You should slow down your speaking and get closer

Most of your intimate escalation should be where no one can see it happening, that way it doesn't trigger her social conditioning. Thats why its good to try and get isolated or semi isolated. But it mainly so longs the touching can't be seen. You can touch her legs under the table, etc.

Basically if you don't escalate your fuked. So its better to always escalate then not get sh!t all the time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Infraction

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2 steps forword 1 step back.
A chick came and sat bext to me, she started to lay on me. I escalted until she wasn't comfort able and she didn't let me keep on. I moved 7 feet away and after 5 min's she came and she let me escatle (from the point we "stopped"). It works like wonders.
 

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Infraction said:
2 steps forword 1 step back.
A chick came and sat bext to me, she started to lay on me. I escalted until she wasn't comfort able and she didn't let me keep on. I moved 7 feet away and after 5 min's she came and she let me escatle (from the point we "stopped"). It works like wonders.
I used to have a sticking point with escalating so I'd like escalate pretty hard in the beginning and then stop and keep it limited. Then I'd usually pump BT and they'd always tend to kino me and almost get pissed that I'm not escalating anymore and they'd leave. But now I kind of use that as a little thing to get the girls to chase me. Almost as if I'm non-verbally playing hard to get. I had this one girl pinching my ass and slapping it, and I still wasn't putting out. It was driving her nuts.
 
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