Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You may join @ week 3.NobodyCares1 said:Hi i just found out about this site a few days ago... and i want to ask if i can still join even after the deadline if it's even necessary... i looked at the two weeks and steps i should do and i basically did it already...
You're obviously too insignificant.Jack Wealthy said:Weird, despite the fact I've completed two weeks and am leading one in just over two months, I'm not on the list.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You didn't mention her in your long post?ScottMustaine said:Should I be doing it if I got girlfriend ? I as myself feel strict about contacts with others until in relationship, and I broke up because of those reasons. This would be like breaking my own rules.
Asking for opinion. (obviously)
Personally, I have a girlfriend and am still doing this. But she obviously has no idea about my pickup life. But this is because I have fvcked up morals compared to what society has placed on us (then again, maybe my morals are more true to human nature...or they're just fvcked up). I have no problem with cheating on my gf, but this is a personal choice. Like LS said, you shouldn't break your own moralityScottMustaine said:Should I be doing it if I got girlfriend ? I as myself feel strict about contacts with others until in relationship, and I broke up because of those reasons. This would be like breaking my own rules.
Asking for opinion. (obviously)
Yes. If I get a girlfriend during this, I'll just not pull any girls I talk to.ScottMustaine said:Should I be doing it if I got girlfriend ? I as myself feel strict about contacts with others until in relationship, and I broke up because of those reasons. This would be like breaking my own rules.
Asking for opinion. (obviously)
Just dont kiss anyone then. Problem solved. Now start!ScottMustaine said:No, I don't have a girlfriend. But If I do get through this process, what to do about the other one's. Go no contact ,and when it's over re-connect ?
And if I understood correctly, even when I get girlfriend, I should continue talking to random girls and getting numbers.
What If one of those girls gets into you, you like her, but you're in relationship, which you also like ?
I never cheated. It's as I said my moral view and it would me eat me alive.
Chances are that you go no contact, and when it's over , re-connect with the one who was into you ? If she isn't it's a bummer.
But I guess I got nothing to lose. If she doesn't like me, at least I know her and can get her friends. Without meeting her, I wouldn't have a chance with her. Thus I think I support this bootcamp.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Done.DJ Bax said:Hey I just joined the forums after reading on them for around two months, care if I join in and start on week 3?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.