"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp Week Three: Let's Learn Faster

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Sixth Form BBQ yesterday and met some new chicks. Use my bros in some funny sexual stuff. 2/7
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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today i was in the university, and i met some chicks there, but im still way behind you guys, but ill try to rack it up tommorow on the skiing :)
week 1 8/10, to be countinied...
 

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Jack Wealthy said:
Love you Josh :)
:) thanks. I almost got one today, got a hug, but didn't use a word.

School dance tonight, another event tomorrow. No social proof at either, I'll be looking to get my approaches done then I'll probably head out.
 

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Week 3 Status 1/7
Got one in school. It happened when I was walking by a classroom and my friend yelled out to me from inside the room. My friend was sitting down and there were these 2 girls talking in front of him. I kind of just stood in between the girls while talking to my friend, and it was kind of weird. They like automatically opened up to me with body language because they were forced to listen to my conversation by proximity. Then I included 1 of the girls, told a story, kino etc. It really made me realize how powerful being blatantly loud and intrusive is, it's a really good tactic.

Going to a macmiller concert and the outside mall soon, I'll finish this there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so week 3 status after this night is 3/7 or maybe 4 but I don't remember exactly... but still I have two new numbers in my phone and one name that I am supposed to add on Facebook I danced quite a lot with that girl... although I only made out with one of the girls... still I think it's a good score for one night out and actually I was only for a 2 hours with the girls...

also sorry if I have bad grammar, english isn't my first language and I'm still a bit drunk :crazy:
 

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I'm at like 5/7. No school this week meant no new social contacts. But still,I will do atleast 2 tomorrow.
 

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I'm not proud of myself.
I did 2 approaches today, but I didn't give any compliments or did any physical touch. I started to have a headache and feeling really tired while I was at the mall. I think it's because I was sick. I really wasn't in the mood for this. This is not good man... There were maybe 4-5 pretty girls I could've approached, but I didn't do it. The other girls were all too old or ugly. The more stressed I felt, the worse became my headache. This really sucks, but I'll do it when I'll feel good. I gotta exercise more, sleep more and eat better I think.

Week 3 status is still at zero... 0/7

I have to put the challenge for week 4 still. I don't know what to do. I didn't complete week 2 and 3 yet. I can still put up the challenge, but I'll be late on the bootcamp because I have to catch up a lot. I'm worried that I won't be able to make it till the end. Procrastinating does not help at all.

Am I still allowed to put the challenge for next week? I promise that I will do it, but I'll take a little more time maybe.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LearningSlowly

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Mindgamez said:
Am I still allowed to put the challenge for next week? I promise that I will do it, but I'll take a little more time maybe.
Good question. It seems NDJ was the only one to complete the challenge this week (I plan to finish tomorrow, using a "Free Hugs" tactic).

Should we give everyone one more week to finish week 3, or should we have Mindgamez post something harder?
 

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Post next weeks challenge over 2 weeks. Each challenge may last 2 weeks, but each challenge will also overlap 1 week. Does this make sense? You are effectively allowed more time, but over the same amount of time. Lifehacks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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had exams, managed to speak to those unknown girls, but i didn't get a number. oh well, we are gonna get exchange tourists from france tomorrow yeaaa
 

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I have the mindset of an AFC:
So I went into today (monday) with 1/7 of my sexual approaches completed because I did absolutely nothing regarding the bootcamp over the weekend. So, I expected to finish this at school today but go figure, I don't get any. I've been feeling kind of out of state the past few days and not getting a single approach at school only made it worse. I decided to take the train and bus home so that I would at least have a chance to finish this. There were a couple of prospective approaches, but I did nothing.

I ended up sitting at the bus stop, thinking to myself "No, no no no no! I can not be a failure, NOT AGAIN! I will not fail this bootcamp at week 3, I will not". As a random act of desperation, I decided to blow off my dad who needed my help, and blow off my homework, for an hour at most. I walked around the university campus, and there were a surprising number of students despite how cold it is outside. I must have passed about 30 women, and guess what, I eventually got my 7 sexual approaches.

I went straight up, no farting around. "Hey, what's your name? I had to stop you because I thought you were really cute". For a couple of them I was standing in front of the university library and asked, "Hey, do you know where the library is? . . . No I'm just kidding, I know where it is, I just had to say hi because I thought you were really cute".

I didn't want to let you guys, or myself down, and I didn't, I finished this week on time.

Week 3 Status: 7/7 & 1 Number Close

(I # closed the 6th approach. I didn't even try. After I opened her she just stuck around like a mosquito over water. Moral of the story, if you approach, some women actually WILL be interested in you)


NorwegianDJ said:
Post next weeks challenge over 2 weeks. Each challenge may last 2 weeks, but each challenge will also overlap 1 week. Does this make sense? You are effectively allowed more time, but over the same amount of time. Lifehacks.
All I see are a bunch of weak excuses from a bunch of weak boys. Don't you feel bad? Don't you feel like you've lost? All you're doing is delaying the inevitable. Your AA is what is making you procrastinate, and just because it got NDJ to extend the deadline, doesn't mean it is right. We started this bootcamp with a goal, and I think we should stick to it. No slacking off. All this is doing is making us weaker. I understand that some have environmental issues blah blah blah. This is no excuse, this is life. Life happens. Don't have enough time to finish the week? Well then you'll have to finish it up while the next one is going. I do not support extending the deadline, I feel like it is the weak-man's way out.


1,872 - 1,500 - 909 - 555
These are the number of views of each thread of the bootcamp as it has progressed. We started with high enthusiasm, 1,872 and 1,500 views, and then it started going down... This is a result of normal human nature which has a problem committing to long term goals, but also a sign to me that we are becoming more lazy about this thing and are loosing interest. You need to stick to this if you want to come out successful on the other side. Just a thought.


Of the 30 or whatever people who signed up, only 2 have made it to week 4 so far...
AlexLefty
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AlexLefty said:
Don't you feel bad? Don't you feel like you've lost? All you're doing is delaying the inevitable. Your AA is what is making you procrastinate, and just because it got NDJ to extend the deadline, doesn't mean it is right.
Yup.

Congrats on success in field, congrats on the number.

I went out today but got nothing more than a warm up approach. I will say that I didn't see a single girl my age, but that's no excuse. I have failed my own week, at 3/7. I'll finish tomorrow.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Yup.

Congrats on success in field, congrats on the number.

I went out today but got nothing more than a warm up approach. I will say that I didn't see a single girl my age, but that's no excuse. I have failed my own week, at 3/7. I'll finish tomorrow.
Thank you.

Keep pushing! Finding girls our age is very difficult for me too, it's what takes up probably 40% of the time! But I found that the university is flowing with girls our age. Give it a try.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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