eastcoast15
Don Juan
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Hey guys, I'm super sorry about putting this off so long. Completely blew it.
That being said heres the challenges I'm laying down for you. They're a bit outside the box compared to the stuff before where it was like APPROACH APPROACH APPROACH.
So because all you guys are currently in high school and hopefully you're out there and getting social in class. By being social in class you're gonna be meeting the people that you might not necessarily ever meet outside of that because of the people you hang out with outside of class.
Obviously the first challenge if you haven't been doing this yet is to push yourself to be more social in class and talk to people. It might be awkward for some of you but if you've been doing the bootcamp up to this point then this is gonna be super super easy for you.
Some easy examples would be
Asking a girl about how she did on the test
What shes doing this weekend
Ask a dude you don't know about the game for us in Canada hockey is always a topic thats gonna get **** going
Its super easy stuff to do so thats the first challenge, just keep pushing yourself to meet people.
The next challenge revolves around leadership. I want you to get some friends together and organize a event. Even if its going lawn bowling or building kites (if thats what you're into you weird ****er) you need to try your best to bring your social group together. Ideally you might have made some new friends in class where you're just “classroom friends” and you could invite them along to make the transition from class friends to chill outside of school friends. Thats asking a lot to do in 10 days and if you've just met them it might be weird inviting them out right away but assuming your vibes are chill it shouldn't be a issue.
The key is for you to get some experience organizing something and forcing yourself into a leadership role. Depending on how advanced you are you might start to notice what types of personalities click and what groups you can bring together well. But don't worry about it too much if thats a bit over your head for now.
I have a little story as an example of how I'm constantly pushing my social circle which is what you need to do if you wanna get to the next level.
So the other day I was sitting in class with a fairly new friend who I had met from being friendly. He invited me out with some people who I knew I hadn't met before but had seen their faces in class. I was superrr tired and I wanted to pass out once class finished but I knew I had a opportunity to meet some new people who I see all the time. So I sucked it up and went for wings and pitchers with a bunch of people I had never met before. You NEED to recognize these chances and take advantage of them when you have the chance.
BONUS POINTS if you throw a big party where everyone has a awesome time because that alone is a skill to have. I wanna hear some good stories about the events you organized. (Norwegian DJ if you dont organize a 500 person party you fail
)
So thats the challenges for the week, its a bit different than the classic PUA but I think its for the better because these actually apply to dudes in high school.
So to recap
1. Get more social in class and make friends who are outside your usual social circle.
2. Organize a social event where you bring as many friends out as possible to have a fun time. Ideally invite the people who you met outside your social circle.
Good luck guys
- Eastcoast
That being said heres the challenges I'm laying down for you. They're a bit outside the box compared to the stuff before where it was like APPROACH APPROACH APPROACH.
So because all you guys are currently in high school and hopefully you're out there and getting social in class. By being social in class you're gonna be meeting the people that you might not necessarily ever meet outside of that because of the people you hang out with outside of class.
Obviously the first challenge if you haven't been doing this yet is to push yourself to be more social in class and talk to people. It might be awkward for some of you but if you've been doing the bootcamp up to this point then this is gonna be super super easy for you.
Some easy examples would be
Asking a girl about how she did on the test
What shes doing this weekend
Ask a dude you don't know about the game for us in Canada hockey is always a topic thats gonna get **** going
Its super easy stuff to do so thats the first challenge, just keep pushing yourself to meet people.
The next challenge revolves around leadership. I want you to get some friends together and organize a event. Even if its going lawn bowling or building kites (if thats what you're into you weird ****er) you need to try your best to bring your social group together. Ideally you might have made some new friends in class where you're just “classroom friends” and you could invite them along to make the transition from class friends to chill outside of school friends. Thats asking a lot to do in 10 days and if you've just met them it might be weird inviting them out right away but assuming your vibes are chill it shouldn't be a issue.
The key is for you to get some experience organizing something and forcing yourself into a leadership role. Depending on how advanced you are you might start to notice what types of personalities click and what groups you can bring together well. But don't worry about it too much if thats a bit over your head for now.
I have a little story as an example of how I'm constantly pushing my social circle which is what you need to do if you wanna get to the next level.
So the other day I was sitting in class with a fairly new friend who I had met from being friendly. He invited me out with some people who I knew I hadn't met before but had seen their faces in class. I was superrr tired and I wanted to pass out once class finished but I knew I had a opportunity to meet some new people who I see all the time. So I sucked it up and went for wings and pitchers with a bunch of people I had never met before. You NEED to recognize these chances and take advantage of them when you have the chance.
BONUS POINTS if you throw a big party where everyone has a awesome time because that alone is a skill to have. I wanna hear some good stories about the events you organized. (Norwegian DJ if you dont organize a 500 person party you fail
)So thats the challenges for the week, its a bit different than the classic PUA but I think its for the better because these actually apply to dudes in high school.
So to recap
1. Get more social in class and make friends who are outside your usual social circle.
2. Organize a social event where you bring as many friends out as possible to have a fun time. Ideally invite the people who you met outside your social circle.
Good luck guys
- Eastcoast
