"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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High School DJBC Week 5: Back to School

Amo

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Hella DJs, what's up?

At the request of Norway, I've come back, despite my sosuave vacation (I need to stop reading, get back to real life, and work at my own pace). I've come back to post this week's challenge. 

You all have by now become wonderful cold approachers! Your confidence is at an all time high and you're kicking serious butt. That's great! But...

Cold approaches are great and all, but we're in high school. And for the majority of us, most of our day is spent in high school. So it follows a lot of approaches should be at school. 

So here are your challenges. 

One, you're going to flirt with everything in sight. Ugly, gorgeous, men, women. Why? Because flirting and game are really just charisma. And without charisma, you're hopeless. 

Two, you're going to number close three hot chicks at your school. If you choose to skip the number and aim a little higher (kiss/sex close), by all means do. ;)

Three, you're going to number close three new guy friends. These guys have to be fairly charismatic and people whom you don't detest. Why guys? Because they're just as important in high school to your game.

So, three hot chicks, three charismatic guys, and everything in sight. 

Gentlemen, school is back in session. 

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Amo

P.S. If you have a valid reason as to why you can't do this at your school (e.g. you're home schooled), you must double those numbers and stay in the right age range. That is, six hot teenage chicks and six charismatic teenage dudes. 

Life is tough, isn't it? :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AlexLefty

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I disagree.
Yes we spend most of our time in high school, but unless you have a good (artificial) reputation, most of the girls you get will not come from your hs.

Regardless, I will do this challenge.

Also It's presidents day, we only have 4 days of school this week...perfect timing for this challenge ha..
 

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Small high school. Meh. Now I have to creep even more on freshmen and sophomores. I dont even like any of them, with the exception of Violet. Its like everyone knows everyone hs. We'll see what i can do :)
 

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The first part sounds good enough- I really needed a reason to be awesome with everyone. The guy part- I can think of 2 guys who'se numbers I don't have and I may need. On the girls- I will try.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LearningSlowly

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Should be easy. Going to a party with kids from my school tonight.

I definitely haven't become a "wonderful cold approacher" yet though. I'll get there.
 

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Just stickied this thread like some lonely guys keyboard with an open porn site.
 

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AlexLefty said:
I disagree.
Yes we spend most of our time in high school, but unless you have a good (artificial) reputation, most of the girls you get will not come from your hs.
A good reputation, however artificial, never hurts.


As for Norway and BPH, there is an escape clause in the fine print. However, I find it hard to believe that you have the number of every hot chick at your school.
 

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I'm not gonna lie, but this challenge kinds of scares me a lot. I do have a couple of hot girls around my social circle I can number close with. I'll try to build enough connection and get the number. We'll see what happens. Gaming in high school is a big fear for me and it has always been! Gotta get out and do something.

I'll try my best guys.
 

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amohield said:
A good reputation, however artificial, never hurts.


As for Norway and BPH, there is an escape clause in the fine print. However, I find it hard to believe that you have the number of every hot chick at your school.
Trust me I do. Plus I've mentioned how few hot girls attend my school, so I go to this here mall :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Libertine

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I've gotten 1 girl's and 2 guy's numbers so far. But I've only had school on Monday,Tuesday and Wednesday this week. I may try to get other girls on facebook.
 

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I'm not doing this at school.
I'm going sarging tomorrow, I'll try to get 6 numbers there.
 

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Now this is a cool challenge, this one is very clear to me, the other ones were doable yet quite hard, because it was so hard to meet hot girls, even on the streets. By the way, I just came to the realisation the next week, I got a week off ahahahah what am I supposed to do
 

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I'm not gonna lie, but I have lots of troubles to keep up with the bootcamp. I have to make it through. I never though my anxiety could get this big. I'm very very late...

Didn't make it through. It's sad because people start to quit and there are less and less participants. I didn't quit, but I'm not making the assignments for each week so it's like I'm not even in the bootcamp. Who's still here?... I'll try to do what I can. At least complete my own week.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AlexLefty

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Didn't do this one.
 

LearningSlowly

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Me either, but I will now that Lefty posted his. (Which is a good one, by the way. I'll definitely try suicides this week, that's fun.)

Bootcamps are hard.
 
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