"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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High School DJBC Week 5: Back to School

Amo

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Hella DJs, what's up?

At the request of Norway, I've come back, despite my sosuave vacation (I need to stop reading, get back to real life, and work at my own pace). I've come back to post this week's challenge. 

You all have by now become wonderful cold approachers! Your confidence is at an all time high and you're kicking serious butt. That's great! But...

Cold approaches are great and all, but we're in high school. And for the majority of us, most of our day is spent in high school. So it follows a lot of approaches should be at school. 

So here are your challenges. 

One, you're going to flirt with everything in sight. Ugly, gorgeous, men, women. Why? Because flirting and game are really just charisma. And without charisma, you're hopeless. 

Two, you're going to number close three hot chicks at your school. If you choose to skip the number and aim a little higher (kiss/sex close), by all means do. ;)

Three, you're going to number close three new guy friends. These guys have to be fairly charismatic and people whom you don't detest. Why guys? Because they're just as important in high school to your game.

So, three hot chicks, three charismatic guys, and everything in sight. 

Gentlemen, school is back in session. 

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Amo

P.S. If you have a valid reason as to why you can't do this at your school (e.g. you're home schooled), you must double those numbers and stay in the right age range. That is, six hot teenage chicks and six charismatic teenage dudes. 

Life is tough, isn't it? :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I disagree.
Yes we spend most of our time in high school, but unless you have a good (artificial) reputation, most of the girls you get will not come from your hs.

Regardless, I will do this challenge.

Also It's presidents day, we only have 4 days of school this week...perfect timing for this challenge ha..
 

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Small high school. Meh. Now I have to creep even more on freshmen and sophomores. I dont even like any of them, with the exception of Violet. Its like everyone knows everyone hs. We'll see what i can do :)
 

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The first part sounds good enough- I really needed a reason to be awesome with everyone. The guy part- I can think of 2 guys who'se numbers I don't have and I may need. On the girls- I will try.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should be easy. Going to a party with kids from my school tonight.

I definitely haven't become a "wonderful cold approacher" yet though. I'll get there.
 

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Just stickied this thread like some lonely guys keyboard with an open porn site.
 

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AlexLefty said:
I disagree.
Yes we spend most of our time in high school, but unless you have a good (artificial) reputation, most of the girls you get will not come from your hs.
A good reputation, however artificial, never hurts.


As for Norway and BPH, there is an escape clause in the fine print. However, I find it hard to believe that you have the number of every hot chick at your school.
 

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I'm not gonna lie, but this challenge kinds of scares me a lot. I do have a couple of hot girls around my social circle I can number close with. I'll try to build enough connection and get the number. We'll see what happens. Gaming in high school is a big fear for me and it has always been! Gotta get out and do something.

I'll try my best guys.
 

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amohield said:
A good reputation, however artificial, never hurts.


As for Norway and BPH, there is an escape clause in the fine print. However, I find it hard to believe that you have the number of every hot chick at your school.
Trust me I do. Plus I've mentioned how few hot girls attend my school, so I go to this here mall :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Libertine

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I've gotten 1 girl's and 2 guy's numbers so far. But I've only had school on Monday,Tuesday and Wednesday this week. I may try to get other girls on facebook.
 

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I'm not doing this at school.
I'm going sarging tomorrow, I'll try to get 6 numbers there.
 

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Now this is a cool challenge, this one is very clear to me, the other ones were doable yet quite hard, because it was so hard to meet hot girls, even on the streets. By the way, I just came to the realisation the next week, I got a week off ahahahah what am I supposed to do
 

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I'm not gonna lie, but I have lots of troubles to keep up with the bootcamp. I have to make it through. I never though my anxiety could get this big. I'm very very late...

Didn't make it through. It's sad because people start to quit and there are less and less participants. I didn't quit, but I'm not making the assignments for each week so it's like I'm not even in the bootcamp. Who's still here?... I'll try to do what I can. At least complete my own week.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Didn't do this one.
 

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Me either, but I will now that Lefty posted his. (Which is a good one, by the way. I'll definitely try suicides this week, that's fun.)

Bootcamps are hard.
 
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