"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I read some of the high school dance threads and a lot of people stress that it's important not to ask a girl if they want to dance with you. I dont really get it, would this mean you just go up behind them without even letting them know and grab their hips and pull it towards you and start grinding?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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At dances I don't ask to dance.

I don't like slow dancing, I rather hump girls from behind when they don't expect it.
 
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In dances i grind as well as slow dance.

What I do to get girls to start grinding is I'd come behind them, and put my hand in her stomach area. At this point she'll look back at me and she'll make eye contact. I'll give her a sly smile and the grinding commences.... Hope this helps.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Slow Dances - Ask. Don't say "Would you like to...". Of course she does. Ask by putting your hand out and smiling.

When everybody is dancing, asking would seem retarded. If shes on the floor just slide in behind her. Most of them totally down with that

If shes not on the floor. Be like "Babe, up on your feet. It's time to break it on down with pimp daddy (Insert Name Here)" and smile. Let her know you're joking and that you aren't REALLY a retard.
 
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