"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I read some of the high school dance threads and a lot of people stress that it's important not to ask a girl if they want to dance with you. I dont really get it, would this mean you just go up behind them without even letting them know and grab their hips and pull it towards you and start grinding?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At dances I don't ask to dance.

I don't like slow dancing, I rather hump girls from behind when they don't expect it.
 
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In dances i grind as well as slow dance.

What I do to get girls to start grinding is I'd come behind them, and put my hand in her stomach area. At this point she'll look back at me and she'll make eye contact. I'll give her a sly smile and the grinding commences.... Hope this helps.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Slow Dances - Ask. Don't say "Would you like to...". Of course she does. Ask by putting your hand out and smiling.

When everybody is dancing, asking would seem retarded. If shes on the floor just slide in behind her. Most of them totally down with that

If shes not on the floor. Be like "Babe, up on your feet. It's time to break it on down with pimp daddy (Insert Name Here)" and smile. Let her know you're joking and that you aren't REALLY a retard.
 
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