"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LearningSlowly

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You're automatically exclusive after one date?

I don't think that's true, and when you meet some more mature girls and you still hold that belief, you'll be in for a rude wake up.
 

AlexLefty

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I feel like this is in response to my sarging post.
LearningSlowly said:
You're automatically exclusive after one date?

I don't think that's true, and when you meet some more mature girls and you still hold that belief, you'll be in for a rude wake up.
Agreed, it just seems too weird.
 

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That's only true if the two girls know each other. I probably wouldn't ask out one girl in my class, then ask out another one for the next week, just because it demonstrates a lack of selectiveness.

But you NEED to start seeing multiple girls. YOU HAVE TO if you want to be successful. It doesn't have to be an every weekend sort of thing, but you need more than one sexualized option.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yea you're speaking a load of bull****. I know several people in the UK, a few in London of course and what you're talking about is definitely not a London thing.
 

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Being honest to myself I posted this as an excuse more than anything else. Although what I said is 100% true that I'd be frozen out by girls if they found out that I was dating more than one, I know personally that I could possibly do it and get away with it. Stay tuned for a journal when I get my courage up to get started...
 
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