"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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joe45

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what does the term high maintenance mean? does it mean the girl wears a lot of makeup and wears trendy clothes that are in style and up to date, does it mean for a guy- he always gets a hair cut every 8 wks and gels it and also wears trendy clothing. what does the term mean

i also really wonder why some gurls would go to school wearing soo much makeup and get all done just to go to class.
same with some guys wearin so much gel for school. i mean we just going to school and its not like ur goin to a party. this is in the college setting
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When girls refer to themselves as high maintence it means that need a lot of attention, time, and money to maintain their lifestyle/image. Much like say a Ferrari in that costs of keeping the car running are usually much higher than the cost of the car itself.

Girls who are truly High Maintenence usually feel to be "above" most people and consider themselves a part of an elite class. While there are some people who definately do belong in this class (Major Celebrities, Royalty, The Super Wealthy, Certain Powerful Families), 99.99999% do not. Most of the time you are dealing with a stuck up sorority girl who has no idea of what life is about. She just know that she does'nt want to actually work for anything. It is up to you to determine whether it is worth it to deal with girls like her.
 

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Last girl I dated was major high maintenance. I made the mistake of telling her that to her face one time (not in a bad way, just said it as sort of an observation). Bad move, she got pissed and essentially broke up with me because of it.
 

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Originally posted by becker
Bad move, she got pissed and essentially broke up with me because of it.
**** her if she can't take a joke. Be glad you're not stuck with a humorless ***** anymore. The worst high maintenence girls are the ones who are in denial about it.
 
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