"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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High Interest Level Or Potential Crazy Woman?

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How can you tell the difference between a girl who has extremely high interest in you, or a girl who is faking high interest because she is desperate for a man or she is just bat chit crazy?

I am drawing from an experience with a chick I got rid of just recently, but I have experienced this again last night with a date I had.

She was all over me and I could have fuked her pretty much IMMEDIATELY, kept telling me she likes me, and wants to see me again!


I want to start first with the chick I recently got rid off after 3 months!


01.Sex within 30 mins of meeting from online - High IL

02. I suggested to her we try a 3sum and 4sum, she agreed - High IL
(LATER SHE DECLINED)

03. She sked me to go on a 3 week holiday with her after only seeing her 6 weeks - High IL

04. Offered to come to my house and re decorate for me - High IL

05. Started pushing for commitment from me only 8 weeks in - High IL


When she realised that I was not READY to give her exclusivity or commitment yet.. the sex completely stopped, she became cold flaky!

I DUMPED her ass... She was back online within days, looking for another potential VICTIM.. like me and her where NOTHING.. No more interest level

My point is.. how the fuk do you know if a girl is genuinely into you, or it's just FAKE right from the beginning..

Maybe girls just fake the high IL just to hook you into RS stage, than start to fuk with your mind..

This new girl I met last night, is again showing high IL but I will be much more cautious this time of her intentions
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When they seem abnormally interested you can be pretty certain they're batshit crazy. If they fall somewhere between super high interest and very low interest it's a good sign.

It really puts me off when a woman comes at me with zero critical thought when she doesn't know me. I expect a woman who have never met me to initially be skeptical, shows she's not reckless.
 

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A lot of times Super high interest right from the start is usually I sign of someone that is incomplete and is looking for someone to fill the void of emptiness. They project fantisies on you and think finally they will be happy...but it never lasts.

And usually we attract what we are... 2 incomplete people usually wind up together. If you've had a lot of relationships with women where you go zero to sixty right off then at it probably tells you a lot about yourself.

Personally, this is the type on women I always end with..sad but true
 

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When they seem abnormally interested you can be pretty certain they're batshit crazy. If they fall somewhere between super high interest and very low interest it's a good sign.

It really puts me off when a woman comes at me with zero critical thought when she doesn't know me. I expect a woman who have never met me to initially be skeptical, shows she's not reckless.

I feel this way too.. Sex immediately.. pushing for commitment weeks in..

You don't even really know a person even 6 months in.. Showing that level of high interest either points to her neediness.. Or she really is a reckless woman..

Also it could all be fake!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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