"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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High Interest Level Or Potential Crazy Woman?

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How can you tell the difference between a girl who has extremely high interest in you, or a girl who is faking high interest because she is desperate for a man or she is just bat chit crazy?

I am drawing from an experience with a chick I got rid of just recently, but I have experienced this again last night with a date I had.

She was all over me and I could have fuked her pretty much IMMEDIATELY, kept telling me she likes me, and wants to see me again!


I want to start first with the chick I recently got rid off after 3 months!


01.Sex within 30 mins of meeting from online - High IL

02. I suggested to her we try a 3sum and 4sum, she agreed - High IL
(LATER SHE DECLINED)

03. She sked me to go on a 3 week holiday with her after only seeing her 6 weeks - High IL

04. Offered to come to my house and re decorate for me - High IL

05. Started pushing for commitment from me only 8 weeks in - High IL


When she realised that I was not READY to give her exclusivity or commitment yet.. the sex completely stopped, she became cold flaky!

I DUMPED her ass... She was back online within days, looking for another potential VICTIM.. like me and her where NOTHING.. No more interest level

My point is.. how the fuk do you know if a girl is genuinely into you, or it's just FAKE right from the beginning..

Maybe girls just fake the high IL just to hook you into RS stage, than start to fuk with your mind..

This new girl I met last night, is again showing high IL but I will be much more cautious this time of her intentions
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When they seem abnormally interested you can be pretty certain they're batshit crazy. If they fall somewhere between super high interest and very low interest it's a good sign.

It really puts me off when a woman comes at me with zero critical thought when she doesn't know me. I expect a woman who have never met me to initially be skeptical, shows she's not reckless.
 

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A lot of times Super high interest right from the start is usually I sign of someone that is incomplete and is looking for someone to fill the void of emptiness. They project fantisies on you and think finally they will be happy...but it never lasts.

And usually we attract what we are... 2 incomplete people usually wind up together. If you've had a lot of relationships with women where you go zero to sixty right off then at it probably tells you a lot about yourself.

Personally, this is the type on women I always end with..sad but true
 

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When they seem abnormally interested you can be pretty certain they're batshit crazy. If they fall somewhere between super high interest and very low interest it's a good sign.

It really puts me off when a woman comes at me with zero critical thought when she doesn't know me. I expect a woman who have never met me to initially be skeptical, shows she's not reckless.

I feel this way too.. Sex immediately.. pushing for commitment weeks in..

You don't even really know a person even 6 months in.. Showing that level of high interest either points to her neediness.. Or she really is a reckless woman..

Also it could all be fake!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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