"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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high intake + high output=best results?

bud_2005

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Just wondering for best results is a high calorie intake and high calorie burnage the best for results? It just made me wonder when I read the story of Michael Phelphs taking in 12,000 calories a day in which he burns off in his workouts and he has a very lean and cut body.

Sometimes I think that I won't go for a run I will just eat less that day but so would it be better to do that cardio and eat more?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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this is a term dubbed "g flux" by Dr. Beradi, and it has been found that people who train at a higher g flux in fact look better, but the same principles still apply.
Calories in > Calories Out = Weight Gain
Calories out > Calories In = Weight Loss

Here is a link:
http://www.johnberardi.com/articles/nutrition/g-flux.htm
 

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Yeah it's called the g flux method, so to speak.

Train twice a day, eat a lot of good food, exercise a lot in general, and you will be amazing at life.
 

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how the hell do u take 12000 calories a day? I dont even think pro bodybuilders eat that much while bulking
 

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Junkyard said:
how the hell do u take 12000 calories a day? I dont even think pro bodybuilders eat that much while bulking
:nervous: i guess thats bad if i know the answer
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Junkyard said:
how the hell do u take 12000 calories a day? I dont even think pro bodybuilders eat that much while bulking
Bodybuilders don't need the calories of Olympic swimmers.

Think of the calories Phelps simply burns from being the water 4 hours a day.
THEN add what he uses when hes swimming for those 4 hours.

THEN add recovery calories.
THEN add growth calories.
 

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phelps and lochte don't eat clean at all.
they just cram as much food into their body as possible.
during the olympics, lochte (who is only a tick slower than phelps in the IM) ate mcdonalds 3X a day basically everyday.
and phelps was on a pasta+pizza diet.
and their intake is closer to 8000
 

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The articles on G-flux were really interesting! Thanks for posting them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That article about Phelps reall opened my eyes. I thought that only way to have around 6% meant you had to eat really, really clean.
 

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12,000 calories in one day? I seriously doubt that.

But when I wasn't working for a few weeks about all I did was work out (approx 3hrs/day in the gym total 5x/week), and eat like a horse. The results were very good indeed.
 

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For those of you who say its very doubtful that he takes in 12,000 calories, did you even read the article in the linK?
 
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