"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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High Heels Fetish.

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Yes that’s correct. I love women who wear heels. I have to look and watch. I can’t help it. The high the better as long as she can walk in them.

My wife use to wear heels often. She has great legs too. But at 45 its kinda gone by the wayside.

Now I watch others who wear heels. If she’s hot I start getting wood. It’s ridiculous really. Anyone else here have this. ? I’m starting to worry about myself haha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes that’s correct. I love women who wear heels. I have to look and watch. I can’t help it. The high the better as long as she can walk in them.

My wife use to wear heels often. She has great legs too. But at 45 its kinda gone by the wayside.

Now I watch others who wear heels. If she’s hot I start getting wood. It’s ridiculous really. Anyone else here have this. ? I’m starting to worry about myself haha.
Totally normal. A woman in High heels is sexy as fvck.

Nothing like having a woman walk around the house in nothing but heels, then banging her while she still has them on.

-Augustus-
 

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Agreed. I have yet to meet a man who doesn't love high heels on a woman. ;)

From your thread title I thought you were going to say something along the lines of YOU liked to wear them. Now that would be a little different, lmao o_O
 

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Pointed toes make butts look rounder. It's a common trick in photography.

The taller a woman is, the more fun heels are. A lot of tall women have never worn them.
 

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I'm more of a foot man myself, and not much of a fan of heels. I think it makes me think of how heels ruin women's feet.

My girl is very tall and therefore doesn't wear heels, which is fine with me. However, as I think about it, I do sometimes appreciate a nice pair of heels out there in the field. But if they're too high and too pointed, it puts her into the slvutosphere for me, anyway. For me they represent a needy "look how sexy I am" vibe.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Man I wish the wife would wear heels in bed again. It’s been like 12 years. I find that so hot and sexy.
Milf Heels Sex. Is super hot.
 

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you're not alone...lol

that's the reason I've had s3x a couple of coworkers of mine. I couldn't resist not telling them that they looked hot as **** in heels, telling them what to wear for work and escalating.
 

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Nice job man. One at a time or a threesome?
Ya I miss that. No question.
Good on you.
 

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Nice job man. One at a time or a threesome?
Ya I miss that. No question.
Good on you.
One at a time.. lol. I’d be out of that company if it were a threesome.
 

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Where's Backbreaker? This is his kind of thread.
Agreed. I have yet to meet a man who doesn't love high heels on a woman.
I've never cared about them. I don't see what the big deal is, I think they look ridiculous. I know they're supposed to make the legs look longer and more shapely somehow (I guess). But I prefer shorter women so high heels don't help that. I also don't know why women want to walk with their feet standing up vertically. That scene in Jurassic World where Bryce Dallas Howard leads the T-Rex, while she's running in high heels, it's like whaaat? Even though she herself is hot, the high heels are ridiculous.

Anyway, I know I'm in the minority. But I'm posting this just to show everybody's different.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Agreed. I have yet to meet a man who doesn't love high heels on a woman.
Meh. Heels are okay when she's dressed up, but I don't think it makes her look more sexy.

I'm more of a foot man myself, and not much of a fan of heels.
I like certain type of feet on a woman, and most women don't have them.

But I prefer shorter women so high heels don't help that.
This is exactly where I'm at. I love shorter women. I generally think shorter women have a nicer shape to them as well.
 

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This is exactly where I'm at. I love shorter women.
Yeah, I think I like shorter women for the same reason that women like taller men. It's very feminine, vive la diff'erence and all that.
Women are naturally shorter than men, that's why some call them "shawtys".
 

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I like short petite women too. 5”2-5”7. I’m 6”3
And find heels sexy always.
Fvcking a woman in heels is priceless.
 

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When I see a woman in a skirt who also has heels on, it makes me subconsciously picture that the skirt is higher up than it really is, and that be sexy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When I see a woman in a skirt who also has heels on, it makes me subconsciously picture that the skirt is higher up than it really is, and that be sexy.
It’s all about the visual for men. Heels more over Stilettos, make that picture that much more sexy.
 

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My preference is short women. But for some reason, I attract tall ones much more than short. My current gf is about 5’8”, a taller than my ideal, but there’s so much good about her that it’s easy to accept. She doesn’t wear heels, in fact she dresses pretty conservatively, but that’s fine by me. She’s a stunner in the looks department, and really doesn’t need the usual female accessories to enhance her beauty/sexiness.

I’ve noticed how we guys are attracted more to female accoutrements more than the person herself. Take away the heels and the makeup, and you’re usually left with a very plain, often ugly person.

“The magic’s In the makeup.”
 

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I agree to a point. But I think the magic is in all of it.
 

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I’ve noticed how we guys are attracted more to female accoutrements more than the person herself.
Some guys perhaps. But I've never really cared about heels or lingerie, I prefer naked.
 

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I mean across the board. Makeup, hair, clothing, etc. Take all that away from most women and most of them look downright plain to ugly. Even an ugly-ish girl can make herself presentable with all those accouterments.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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