"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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High five to hand holding...???

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I've had this happen twice at school with two different women.

I'll reach out to high five the girl and she'll high five me, but grab my hand simultaneously... then let go a few seconds later.

What is this? An IOI? A freak coincidence?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Actually I can confirm that one of them liked me. She actually invited me to go chill with her, even though I was just studying with her. I didn't want to so I just said I needed to study.

The other one I'm not sure about and am kind of interested in. Should investigate...

Is this something a lot of women do? The first one was pretty slutty so it made sense. Now when it happens for the second time with a different girl, it's almost like they are doing it consciously. Like they learned it somewhere.
 
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PersistenceIsKey said:
Actually I can confirm that one of them liked me. She actually invited me to go chill with her, even though I was just studying with her. I didn't want to so I just said I needed to study.

The other one I'm not sure about and am kind of interested in. Should investigate...

Is this something a lot of women do? The first one was pretty slutty so it made sense. Now when it happens for the second time with a different girl, it's almost like they are doing it consciously. Like they learned it somewhere.
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A female who is interested will take advantage of any chance to be physical... Straighten your tie for you, grab your arm lightly while talking, or even hold on to your hand during a high-five (whatever the hell that was for).

Ya know?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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