"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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High five to hand holding...???

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I've had this happen twice at school with two different women.

I'll reach out to high five the girl and she'll high five me, but grab my hand simultaneously... then let go a few seconds later.

What is this? An IOI? A freak coincidence?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Actually I can confirm that one of them liked me. She actually invited me to go chill with her, even though I was just studying with her. I didn't want to so I just said I needed to study.

The other one I'm not sure about and am kind of interested in. Should investigate...

Is this something a lot of women do? The first one was pretty slutty so it made sense. Now when it happens for the second time with a different girl, it's almost like they are doing it consciously. Like they learned it somewhere.
 
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PersistenceIsKey said:
Actually I can confirm that one of them liked me. She actually invited me to go chill with her, even though I was just studying with her. I didn't want to so I just said I needed to study.

The other one I'm not sure about and am kind of interested in. Should investigate...

Is this something a lot of women do? The first one was pretty slutty so it made sense. Now when it happens for the second time with a different girl, it's almost like they are doing it consciously. Like they learned it somewhere.
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A female who is interested will take advantage of any chance to be physical... Straighten your tie for you, grab your arm lightly while talking, or even hold on to your hand during a high-five (whatever the hell that was for).

Ya know?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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