"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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High five everyone that walks by

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I've done this twice already...first time it was just a joke between a friend and I. I went along with it and actually pulled girls with little effort.

At a busy bar/club I was high fiving everyone that walked by...guy or girl. I would stick out my arm like i'm going to high five them and say "Hey! High five to current events!"

Now we don't care about picking up guys but high fiving everyone shows you are fun, outgoing and like to party. You actually have to be excited about doing this otherwise I'm pretty sure you will get rejected often. From MY experience, very little women won't high five you. 1/3 will just high five you. 1/3 will high five you and ask you to repeat what you said. The other 1/3 will actually stop and talk to you.

Example:

me: Hey! High five to current events!
her: What?
me: High five to current events!
*high five eachother*
her: What kind of current events?
me: (being from wisconsin) Packers are 12-0! Wisconsin is in the Rose Bowl! And me finding out what your name is! What's your name?

I've only done this with bars/clubs that are busy and have constant traffic in an area of the bar/club. Your attitude has to be right. I've pulled girls for myself as well as girls for my friends as they will chime in when I start with that opener. I never had a girl really judge me and in fact most seem to think it's interesting. It's so stupid it works. Try it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I could see this being a rather effective strategy. Thanks for the tip, brother.
 
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Telling you...just try it. Then come back here and describe what happened. Make sure you have a good vibe and don't be awkward. Sh*t I'd almost say not for the beginner DJ because I feel newbies don't have the proper body language/mindset for something like this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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one more thing to add:

The type of club/bar I was at when doing this was a rather large venue. One room had a dance floor and the other was just seating, bars being in both rooms. This was not your standard club where everyone dresses up and uses mommy and daddys money to get VIP. Think more along the lines of a "country style bar" and age ranged from 21-32.

So think about what's going on in your town or state and start to high five people to current events!
 
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