"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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High five everyone that walks by

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I've done this twice already...first time it was just a joke between a friend and I. I went along with it and actually pulled girls with little effort.

At a busy bar/club I was high fiving everyone that walked by...guy or girl. I would stick out my arm like i'm going to high five them and say "Hey! High five to current events!"

Now we don't care about picking up guys but high fiving everyone shows you are fun, outgoing and like to party. You actually have to be excited about doing this otherwise I'm pretty sure you will get rejected often. From MY experience, very little women won't high five you. 1/3 will just high five you. 1/3 will high five you and ask you to repeat what you said. The other 1/3 will actually stop and talk to you.

Example:

me: Hey! High five to current events!
her: What?
me: High five to current events!
*high five eachother*
her: What kind of current events?
me: (being from wisconsin) Packers are 12-0! Wisconsin is in the Rose Bowl! And me finding out what your name is! What's your name?

I've only done this with bars/clubs that are busy and have constant traffic in an area of the bar/club. Your attitude has to be right. I've pulled girls for myself as well as girls for my friends as they will chime in when I start with that opener. I never had a girl really judge me and in fact most seem to think it's interesting. It's so stupid it works. Try it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I could see this being a rather effective strategy. Thanks for the tip, brother.
 
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Telling you...just try it. Then come back here and describe what happened. Make sure you have a good vibe and don't be awkward. Sh*t I'd almost say not for the beginner DJ because I feel newbies don't have the proper body language/mindset for something like this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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one more thing to add:

The type of club/bar I was at when doing this was a rather large venue. One room had a dance floor and the other was just seating, bars being in both rooms. This was not your standard club where everyone dresses up and uses mommy and daddys money to get VIP. Think more along the lines of a "country style bar" and age ranged from 21-32.

So think about what's going on in your town or state and start to high five people to current events!
 
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