"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Brian20o2

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I think that this subject is not spoken about as much as it should. I mean all the attitude and ideas around being a DJ would be nearly useless if you smell like BO. Now im not really asking for advice, just input (theres a difference?) haha. I think of myself as a clean guy i shave, shower daily and if i dont i feel like sh*t. I dont let my body hair get out of controll etc.

Are there any other things that are important for higene and that stuff?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alphathree

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I dance a lot so women are always inspecting me closely. Things I worry about include (just remember, you asked for it):

-- bad breath/teeth/anything in your mouth at all
-- nose hair, or hair of any kind in odd places
-- NAILS clean and cut
-- clothes not wrinkled
 

diablo

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It's spelled "Hygiene", and it belongs in H&F.

The reason it's not spoken about much is because it's generally assumed by most civilized people that everyone already knows how to do it. :rolleyes: I mean, honestly - what's so difficult about taking a shower, using soap, brushing your teeth, clipping your nails, shampooing, shaving, using deodorant, and washing your clothes after wearing them? Unless you just walked out of the jungle you should have been doing all of the above since you were a little kid.
 
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