"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think that this subject is not spoken about as much as it should. I mean all the attitude and ideas around being a DJ would be nearly useless if you smell like BO. Now im not really asking for advice, just input (theres a difference?) haha. I think of myself as a clean guy i shave, shower daily and if i dont i feel like sh*t. I dont let my body hair get out of controll etc.

Are there any other things that are important for higene and that stuff?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I dance a lot so women are always inspecting me closely. Things I worry about include (just remember, you asked for it):

-- bad breath/teeth/anything in your mouth at all
-- nose hair, or hair of any kind in odd places
-- NAILS clean and cut
-- clothes not wrinkled
 

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It's spelled "Hygiene", and it belongs in H&F.

The reason it's not spoken about much is because it's generally assumed by most civilized people that everyone already knows how to do it. :rolleyes: I mean, honestly - what's so difficult about taking a shower, using soap, brushing your teeth, clipping your nails, shampooing, shaving, using deodorant, and washing your clothes after wearing them? Unless you just walked out of the jungle you should have been doing all of the above since you were a little kid.
 
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