hi

[GuyInNeed0902]

what's up?

 

[Igetit!]

It's Crusader. I called it first!!! I win,hee hee.

Dude,what is this....your third or fourth surname? Trying to get rid of Crusader is like trying to exterminate roaches:just when you think you've got them all,another one crawls out of the woodwork.

 

[GuyInNeed0902]

You win the million dollar prize.....

 

[GuyInNeed0902]

Well, I start off with a question. After reading this thread, http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=159291 , I could relate to alot about it's talk of lack of a social and sex life, years gone bye, getting over this seems to be my biggest challenge to getting towards success. So my question is, how do I get over it, esp when it feels so in my face every day? Also, I realize just how fvcked up my mindset has been over all of this, everything from women,dating,and sex, to guidance and a path in life,and reaching goals.

 

[GuyInNeed0902]

I am trying to start positivley ok.

 

[Dannyrt34]

Walking vagina!!!! Their Everywhere!!!!

(until you get serious, nobody will take you serious. And that's not even a guarantee.)

 

[Little Italy]

nothing with you...

 

[GuyInNeed0902]

I know. I have to get serious about doing this. As for the walking vagina comment, it's true. I have given in too much to this emotional stress, and it is all I can think about, to the point where it is killing my psyche, holding me back, and causing me misery, whilst everyone else so seemingly happily succeeds. Instead of fixing the problem,I use(d) it as a crutch for attention, or thought someone else could fix it.

 

[GuyInNeed0902]

I mean, I realize something I have been holding back. It's this social thing, and trying to get the girls I want to get, but not knowing how, or hiding that I want to fvck them, but w/o coming off as a pervert or immature. This is all stuff I either didn't learn or wasn't taught.

 

[horaholic]

You dont realize shyt, dude.

 

[Maxtro]

Oh so that's who you were. Since you found my thread, why not fallow some of the advice I was given. I'm sure some of it can apply to you. You don't really need to make a thread about the same thing.

 

[Daydream Engineer]

I dedicated a song to you in this thread caped:

scroll all the way down:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1555782#post1555782

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Come join me and share your thoughts at my Approach Journal and Fun Times Thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=159172[/SIZE]

 

[mothballs]

Holy **** Caped... are you really this dense? How many times will you ask the same ****ing question? You have a hundred million posts where people gave you the same advice repeatedly... go look at those.

 

[Damascus]

Don't be mean to him! We are all on the same team, he deserves to be on this forum. What a bunch of repressed meanies you guys are! Guyinneed i will be your friend on this forum. Shame on you guys for making fun of him for being diffrerent.

SHAME!

 

[GuyInNeed0902]

Yes, I really am this dense. Why I keep doing this? Idk, just to let it out. I just can't initiate things, I get so ovewhelmed, I lose focus. I know you can't help me on here. So I need professional help.

 

[Damascus]

Don't Call Him A Walking Lady Part! He Has Feelings Too Mr. I Get All The Girls! RESPECT!

GuyinNeed stand up for yourself. i can't defend your honor all the time.

 

[GuyInNeed0902]

Hey whoa, I don't need a defend my honor thing ok. I am not trying to be mr.sensitive guy either, fvck that. But my problem has been this depression/emotional thing, and instead of getting real help, I post on here. I am not like this in real life, although there have been times when I have been annoying. Thing is, I don't go around seeking attention.

 

[GuyInNeed0902]

I mean, I am either just not attractive enough to the girls I like, or I have so little experience, I wouldn't know the signs, like the "fvck me eyes" and all that. But, I realize don't be a doormat, know when to say no, don't do everything for her, don't be clingy, don't over do it with romance stuff,etc. I mean, I am or have been so focused on the outcome in life, it has taken over me. I know no one is perfect, but I have struggled along.

 

[Scars]

Stop using depression as an excuse. I used to be the most depressed mofo you had ever seen. After awhile I realized that you can be happy you just have to CHOOSE to be happy. Don't let sad things fill your thoughts and always keep yourself occupied. Focus on the good, no the bad. You're trippin' over girls to much. Focus on your life, hobbies and securing your future and career.

 

[GuyInNeed0902]

Thing is, I am focused on future and career, to a point where getting it sorted out seems harder than normal. Well, I can't help but "trip over girls". I go for long periods without any, so it leads to some harsh feelings. I wish I had fixed all this sooner, maybe things would be different.