"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi Program: Have I gone insane

everywomanshero

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I recently "redid" the HI program.

I finally got it this time. It's not about her or "getting her to like me", but instead it is just about getting what I want. What I want is what
I want, and what 99.99999% of all women think is of no consequence to my dating success. Hence, I only need to snare a tiny fraction of womens' interest in order to have more dates than I could ever possibly go out on.

Armed with this knowledge, it is now very easy for me to say HI to
women. I never had problems approaching women with stories that
I was from out of town, but I felt very silly saying HI to women hurrying
through stores prior to this. Now, I realize it is my right to interupt them
by saying HI. It does no harm, and I am advancing even if they try rejecting
my move forward in the dating world.

It is my right and duty as a man to go out there and get all the pvssy I want (once my HIV test comes back negative, we hope).
Women want me to do it, and I want to do it too. I will take the challenge of
becoming a man. A man that gets a lot of *****. A man who isn't afraid
to interupt women, and a man who realizes it is not about the females, but
about himself.

Am I right or have I just gone insane?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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08aisaac

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Wow it is good to see someone on this board has learned something. You should not give a rat's ass what a girl thinks. unless you are exclusive. But for the most time they wont care what you want, so you shouldn't care what they want.
 

Visceral

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IMO ...

You've got it! You've nailed the mindset you need to have to be successful with women.

I imagine now the challenge will be to act on this mindset without creeping the women out or scaring them away. I doubt very much that a woman would be attracted to a man who puts her life on hold for his own benefit or who is threatening to her.

Now you focus on technique; learn how to make your new-found masculine power attractive rather than repulsive to her. Focus on discipline; enable her to trust you, because I think that at this point, lack of trust or excess of fear, all on her part, is what might cause her to reject you.

And don't forget how to take "No." for an answer. No amount of power will shield you from a kick to the groin, much less a court summons.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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