"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi Program: Have I gone insane

everywomanshero

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I recently "redid" the HI program.

I finally got it this time. It's not about her or "getting her to like me", but instead it is just about getting what I want. What I want is what
I want, and what 99.99999% of all women think is of no consequence to my dating success. Hence, I only need to snare a tiny fraction of womens' interest in order to have more dates than I could ever possibly go out on.

Armed with this knowledge, it is now very easy for me to say HI to
women. I never had problems approaching women with stories that
I was from out of town, but I felt very silly saying HI to women hurrying
through stores prior to this. Now, I realize it is my right to interupt them
by saying HI. It does no harm, and I am advancing even if they try rejecting
my move forward in the dating world.

It is my right and duty as a man to go out there and get all the pvssy I want (once my HIV test comes back negative, we hope).
Women want me to do it, and I want to do it too. I will take the challenge of
becoming a man. A man that gets a lot of *****. A man who isn't afraid
to interupt women, and a man who realizes it is not about the females, but
about himself.

Am I right or have I just gone insane?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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08aisaac

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Wow it is good to see someone on this board has learned something. You should not give a rat's ass what a girl thinks. unless you are exclusive. But for the most time they wont care what you want, so you shouldn't care what they want.
 

Visceral

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IMO ...

You've got it! You've nailed the mindset you need to have to be successful with women.

I imagine now the challenge will be to act on this mindset without creeping the women out or scaring them away. I doubt very much that a woman would be attracted to a man who puts her life on hold for his own benefit or who is threatening to her.

Now you focus on technique; learn how to make your new-found masculine power attractive rather than repulsive to her. Focus on discipline; enable her to trust you, because I think that at this point, lack of trust or excess of fear, all on her part, is what might cause her to reject you.

And don't forget how to take "No." for an answer. No amount of power will shield you from a kick to the groin, much less a court summons.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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