Hi, I'm new to the scene.....

[GL01]

Hi, I am 18 years old, weight 197 pounds am 6 foot 6 inches and can bench 260 pounds and everything else i can do is proporsional to that. I consider myself to be in good shape and I am average in facial looks. I am VERY new to the whole dating scene and picking up chicks scene. See, I used to be very very very very overweight (270 pounds benching 100 pounds) and was afraid to ever hit on a girl or do anything like that. I havn't even KISSED a girl in my life. It was just about 2 years ago that I decided to get myself in shape. However, I want to become an uber pimp . So I figure trial and error is the key. But I need some tips and suggestions, so could anyone help me out with this?

 

[brenbaus]

Read the bible, it will tell you all you need to know.

 

[GL01]

could i get a link to the bible or just tell me how to get to it?
*Edit**never mind* i just saw the link

 

[Metalixia]

Get a girlfriend. What's the point in trying to be a player or whatever, if you've never even kissed or touched a girl before.

If you wanna be a top class ladies man, then you need experience. Guess what Jimmy? You're not gonna get any from reading some DJ bible, you should just network, meet more people and get a girlfriend.

You're 18. Being a player can wait.

 

[Best friends? NAY]

Set your self up to win.
Nice cloths, nice shoes, good cologne.
Do stuff to help you NOW.
Are you're teeth white?
Is your hair nice looking?
Do studder or mumble?
Work on these things.
Ohh ya, and do that thing everyone always talks about.... have some fun.

 

[GL01]

Ok, I understand what I need to do. I have plenty of self confidence (in areas that i have experience in lol) and I do have plenty of fun. For instance, today I just learned to skimboard and tore my ass UP. It was fun as hell. But I also kneeboard and wakeskate. But the most enjoyable thing in my life right now is probably weightlifting, without that I would be lost. As I've seen several times, I just need to get out of my comfort zone of being alone, and take some risks. I'm a goodlooking guy so I know i can do it. Thanks for all the post btw.

 

[coldcoal]

Welcome to SS, Brah. I had a friend that went through the same thing as you. He was a pudgy freshman in HS and people made fun of him. By the time he was a senior he was baggin hotties left and right. All he really needed to do besides get in shape was to take up the look the women he was chasing loved. Find the girls you like, check out what they dig and become it. They have no memory of who you use to be if you're cool about it. Older women require more skill, but @ your age level it's a sinch like that.

 

[needsomehelp]

dont listen to any "pimps" or "players" or whatever. in the end, its all about self confidence and developing your own style.

you have nothing to lose. just go up and chat generally with a girl.

general questions like: "hey? do you come here often?", "what's your name?", or whatever will set you up for a conversation.

if youre at a club, some alcohol will help you out (avoid drinking too much) as it will give you artificial bravery...

just keep going out and trying to dance and talk with girls. sure, you'll get dissed sometimes, but dont let that get you down.

"Best friends? NAY" has a point where he states that you have to make yourself look as good as you possibly can. Get some good clothes. If you have any female friends get them to dress you.

 

[GL01]

needsomehelp, I agree with you, I think that is the way to go, but I disagree with that **** you wrote in your other post. lol. I dunno where you got the idea that power doesnt respect power, but just try to notice it in your everyday life with your friends, you probably will. If they are not homo. Which I'm assuming they are not.