"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi,Im new here.A little bit of help if you dont mind.

nO_boOdy

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Hello,

Could you help me the best you can.

I have been living in france for one year.And need a bit of help getting chicks here.I dont know what to do with these fine chicks.

There is this girl in my class in collage.She is a hb8....

I would like to go out with her.she likes me and I like her,We flirt alot during our english classes.But I dont want to go and ask her out then be rejected by her and loose our (friendship) /(buddy)
So I would like to hear some tips/advice on what to do to know if she likes me ect.... (P.s. Pretty lame I know.But hey I have only been going to collage here in France for only 2 months,So I dont know how to aprotch the girls here and dont want to loose my image.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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You JUST said that she likes you, why do you need to know if she does? You have two choices, be a p*ssy or ask her out. Its as simple as that.
 

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So you want to go out with this girl, but you don't want to ask her out? You're looking for some kind of magic solution where you two will just start dating without any kind of risk on your part. Sorry buddy, that's just not how it works. If the girl seems interested, then just ask her to get together some time...you have nothing to be afraid of. You won't lose your rep by getting turned down, you'll lose your rep by being a ***** who never takes chances.
 

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Shes not gonna jump on ya unless you got 12 inches hangin down your pants leg. In other words shes not gonna come up to you and jump up and down and beg you to go out with her.

So just ask her out. If she likes you like you say she does, then it shouldn't be hard to get a yes out of her.

By the way....change that S/N it screams....AFC.

Just my 2 cents.......
 

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tu parles francais?

In the event that you don't...
1) You like HB8.
2) HB8 likes you.
3) You are afraid of rejection?!

Do you see the illogical pattern? Ask her to something fun (Ice skating, walk in park etc...) and make a move.

Lik
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oui Je parles francais

Thank you for the help so fare....But What I ment to say how can I talk to her(In french) Saying afew cute/Flirtful words to make it more easier.
It is much easier to think of saying things in english than in french.

Today I spoke to her/here is our convosation in english (cause most guys here dont speak french)

Me:Hey marina

Her:HI Grant What is up?

Me:Nothing much.Just thinking..

Her:Oh what are you thinking about?

Me:You.

Her:Arnt I so speshil (With a little grin)

Me:YEa(little Smirk)

Then the bell rings and that was that.

Any tips on fiting in the ("Wanna hang out some time")

And I'm not shy to talk to her.Just that I tried to fit in the final part then the bell rings..

So just a few techniques would be great.

L3trZ
 

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Re: Oui Je parles francais

Originally posted by nO_boOdy
Thank you for the help so fare....But What I ment to say how can I talk to her(In french) Saying afew cute/Flirtful words to make it more easier.
It is much easier to think of saying things in english than in french.

Today I spoke to her/here is our convosation in english (cause most guys here dont speak french)

Me:Hey marina

Her:HI Grant What is up?

Me:Nothing much.Just thinking..

Her:Oh what are you thinking about?

Me:You.

Her:Arnt I so speshil (With a little grin)

Me:YEa(little Smirk)

Then the bell rings and that was that.

Any tips on fiting in the ("Wanna hang out some time")

And I'm not shy to talk to her.Just that I tried to fit in the final part then the bell rings..

So just a few techniques would be great.

L3trZ
You told her that shes special??? Should have said something ****y instead of inflating her ego. Just ASK her if she wants to hang out. Ask what shes doing this weekend. Je parle francais aussi! :D
 
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