Judging from the posts I've seen, I'll be one of the older guys on this forum, but hopefully I'll be able share my experiences (good and bad) in order to benefit this board. I do not utilize any particular "method" per se, rather I have formulated a certain way to project the way I live (no, not a "Mr. Baller" image), which has given me an amazing success rate. However, I'm not against any particular PUA method....if it works for you, it works for you ! I do find inspiration in the words of Paul Janka and Pook. You "youngsters" here have no idea how lucky you are to live in this information age.....If I had only had something like this when I was in High School (sigh). See you on the boards
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hi Guys !!!
- Thread starter Rubirosa
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Don Juan
welcome!
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Master Don Juan
Welcome.
So, OP, how old are you?
So, OP, how old are you?