Judging from the posts I've seen, I'll be one of the older guys on this forum, but hopefully I'll be able share my experiences (good and bad) in order to benefit this board. I do not utilize any particular "method" per se, rather I have formulated a certain way to project the way I live (no, not a "Mr. Baller" image), which has given me an amazing success rate. However, I'm not against any particular PUA method....if it works for you, it works for you ! I do find inspiration in the words of Paul Janka and Pook. You "youngsters" here have no idea how lucky you are to live in this information age.....If I had only had something like this when I was in High School (sigh). See you on the boards
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
Welcome.
So, OP, how old are you?
So, OP, how old are you?