"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi Guys, Later Man

Canadian Catnip

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I was wondering if anyone else has used expressions like these on women and would like to know what kind of reaction they got from them?

I use Hi Guys sometimes on women but the other day I was saying goodbye to a few male friends with "Later man" and a few minutes later I bumped into this girl I know on the street and chatted for about a minute then as I went to leave she said bye and I said "Later Man".

It came out by accident and I was already walking away from her so I never got to see her reaction. I was curious to know if that is considered an insult to a women or would she think it ****y or would she think I was just stupid? I don't want to come across as stupid.

I felt stupid after saying it, but does it happen lots to women and how does it really make them feel?

Please, no comments about who cares what the biach thinks. I am trying to improve myself here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Obsidian

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it's not ideal, but I don't think it's a big deal
 

potato

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Many women, when running into other women will say things like, "Hi guys" so I don't think talk like this bothers them at all.
 

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I once was talking to this German chic. She was like, I have a very guy like hobbies, soccer, muic, or whatever, I fogot, then she said role playing.. I tell her, other than role playing you're a cool dude..

She was like, hahahaha, you're funny.
 
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