"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi Guys, Later Man

Canadian Catnip

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I was wondering if anyone else has used expressions like these on women and would like to know what kind of reaction they got from them?

I use Hi Guys sometimes on women but the other day I was saying goodbye to a few male friends with "Later man" and a few minutes later I bumped into this girl I know on the street and chatted for about a minute then as I went to leave she said bye and I said "Later Man".

It came out by accident and I was already walking away from her so I never got to see her reaction. I was curious to know if that is considered an insult to a women or would she think it ****y or would she think I was just stupid? I don't want to come across as stupid.

I felt stupid after saying it, but does it happen lots to women and how does it really make them feel?

Please, no comments about who cares what the biach thinks. I am trying to improve myself here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Obsidian

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it's not ideal, but I don't think it's a big deal
 

potato

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Many women, when running into other women will say things like, "Hi guys" so I don't think talk like this bothers them at all.
 

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I once was talking to this German chic. She was like, I have a very guy like hobbies, soccer, muic, or whatever, I fogot, then she said role playing.. I tell her, other than role playing you're a cool dude..

She was like, hahahaha, you're funny.
 
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