612_Da_Playa
Don Juan
Excuse me if I come off as uninformed but whatever happened to just approaching a girl with a "Hey, what's up" while being well groomed? Does that not work anymore?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DjDan said:No there isn't.
It really IS that simple man. Nerds like you keep complicating sh1t. Mystery method and his A1, B3, S3. Like player_supreme said: "this ain't bingo mothaf^cka"
I've gotten laid by just saying HELLO and I have seen guys who have done the same.
You just need to spit good game and have good conversation skills and be a real man and the p^ssy will come easily.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Nerds like me? What do you know about me and my game? If someone is a afc or has no idea what their doing with women. Do you think they are gonna get laid by just saying; "hey hows it going?" or by simply saying hello? Yeah you need know how to spit game but, thats not all.DjDan said:No there isn't.
It really IS that simple man. Nerds like you keep complicating sh1t. Mystery method and his A1, B3, S3. Like player_supreme said: "this ain't bingo mothaf^cka"
I've gotten laid by just saying HELLO and I have seen guys who have done the same.
You just need to spit good game and have good conversation skills and be a real man and the p^ssy will come easily.
DjDan said:No there isn't.
It really IS that simple man. Nerds like you keep complicating sh1t. Mystery method and his A1, B3, S3. Like player_supreme said: "this ain't bingo mothaf^cka"
I've gotten laid by just saying HELLO and I have seen guys who have done the same.
You just need to spit good game and have good conversation skills and be a real man and the p^ssy will come easily.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
There's one ugly fact in the way: you can't walk up to one beautiful girl by herself. Because . . . BEAUTIFUL GIRLS ARE NOT BY THEMSELVES!! She's with her friends, often mixed gender. Really, are they ALL going to just stop talking & sit patiently while you chat her up?whatever happened to just approaching a girl with a "Hey, what's up"
Hello? Hello what? Start talking about the weather? Some guys have approach journals that go into this stuff.I've gotten laid by just saying HELLO and I have seen guys who have done the same.
Bingo LOL. Or a game of "Battleship" And the M3 model flow charts. Good lord.DjDan said:No there isn't.
It really IS that simple man. Nerds like you keep complicating sh1t. Mystery method and his A1, B3, S3. Like player_supreme said: "this ain't bingo mothaf^cka"
I've gotten laid by just saying HELLO and I have seen guys who have done the same.
You just need to spit good game and have good conversation skills and be a real man and the p^ssy will come easily.
My results with DA clearly contradict your first statement.ChrizZ said:
LOL! I certainly hope that post was satire and not serious. :crackup:zerocelcius said:Please explain how it is that simple!
What age group does this work on?
What setting are you in?
What do you hope to get from this approach?
Did you Calibrate first?
Do you care about the IOI?
Did you use the 3 Second Rule?
Are you using this as the Introduction? Than moving on with the basics?
Are you going to use Trance words and Mirror to make her feel comfortable?
Are you going to Elicit her values and regurgitate them back?
Are you going to Run the amazing connection on her so that she trusts you?
Are you going to Disarm her by separating yourself from others?
Are you going to Use sexual accelerators like Kino and Patterning to turn her on?
Than are you going to try to fClose her, if no-go than #close?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tragic, but INCREDIBLY true.Phyzzle said:There's one ugly fact in the way: you can't walk up to one beautiful girl by herself. Because . . . BEAUTIFUL GIRLS ARE NOT BY THEMSELVES!! She's with her friends, often mixed gender. Really, are they ALL going to just stop talking & sit patiently while you chat her up?
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Even in the rare case she is by herself, you have to say HI!! through her I-pod earbuds while she's staring at the ground through her welding-mask sunglasses while she's walking a mile a minute. Good luck.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.