612_Da_Playa
Don Juan
Excuse me if I come off as uninformed but whatever happened to just approaching a girl with a "Hey, what's up" while being well groomed? Does that not work anymore?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DjDan said:No there isn't.
It really IS that simple man. Nerds like you keep complicating sh1t. Mystery method and his A1, B3, S3. Like player_supreme said: "this ain't bingo mothaf^cka"
I've gotten laid by just saying HELLO and I have seen guys who have done the same.
You just need to spit good game and have good conversation skills and be a real man and the p^ssy will come easily.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Nerds like me? What do you know about me and my game? If someone is a afc or has no idea what their doing with women. Do you think they are gonna get laid by just saying; "hey hows it going?" or by simply saying hello? Yeah you need know how to spit game but, thats not all.DjDan said:No there isn't.
It really IS that simple man. Nerds like you keep complicating sh1t. Mystery method and his A1, B3, S3. Like player_supreme said: "this ain't bingo mothaf^cka"
I've gotten laid by just saying HELLO and I have seen guys who have done the same.
You just need to spit good game and have good conversation skills and be a real man and the p^ssy will come easily.
DjDan said:No there isn't.
It really IS that simple man. Nerds like you keep complicating sh1t. Mystery method and his A1, B3, S3. Like player_supreme said: "this ain't bingo mothaf^cka"
I've gotten laid by just saying HELLO and I have seen guys who have done the same.
You just need to spit good game and have good conversation skills and be a real man and the p^ssy will come easily.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
There's one ugly fact in the way: you can't walk up to one beautiful girl by herself. Because . . . BEAUTIFUL GIRLS ARE NOT BY THEMSELVES!! She's with her friends, often mixed gender. Really, are they ALL going to just stop talking & sit patiently while you chat her up?whatever happened to just approaching a girl with a "Hey, what's up"
Hello? Hello what? Start talking about the weather? Some guys have approach journals that go into this stuff.I've gotten laid by just saying HELLO and I have seen guys who have done the same.
Bingo LOL. Or a game of "Battleship" And the M3 model flow charts. Good lord.DjDan said:No there isn't.
It really IS that simple man. Nerds like you keep complicating sh1t. Mystery method and his A1, B3, S3. Like player_supreme said: "this ain't bingo mothaf^cka"
I've gotten laid by just saying HELLO and I have seen guys who have done the same.
You just need to spit good game and have good conversation skills and be a real man and the p^ssy will come easily.
My results with DA clearly contradict your first statement.ChrizZ said:
LOL! I certainly hope that post was satire and not serious. :crackup:zerocelcius said:Please explain how it is that simple!
What age group does this work on?
What setting are you in?
What do you hope to get from this approach?
Did you Calibrate first?
Do you care about the IOI?
Did you use the 3 Second Rule?
Are you using this as the Introduction? Than moving on with the basics?
Are you going to use Trance words and Mirror to make her feel comfortable?
Are you going to Elicit her values and regurgitate them back?
Are you going to Run the amazing connection on her so that she trusts you?
Are you going to Disarm her by separating yourself from others?
Are you going to Use sexual accelerators like Kino and Patterning to turn her on?
Than are you going to try to fClose her, if no-go than #close?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tragic, but INCREDIBLY true.Phyzzle said:There's one ugly fact in the way: you can't walk up to one beautiful girl by herself. Because . . . BEAUTIFUL GIRLS ARE NOT BY THEMSELVES!! She's with her friends, often mixed gender. Really, are they ALL going to just stop talking & sit patiently while you chat her up?
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Even in the rare case she is by herself, you have to say HI!! through her I-pod earbuds while she's staring at the ground through her welding-mask sunglasses while she's walking a mile a minute. Good luck.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.