"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey Seabreeze

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sorry sea breeze- i didnt read your stuff much early on.
that's cool that ya dad was like that. my dad wuz a complete **** up, and taught me how to downgrade and hate women.

probably part of the reason why i WAS and AFC
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
what time is it over there hotice?

and whats the weather like in Finland?
Finland is GMT+2 hours
Figure it out from there...
Right now it's 09:50 PM here. I'm drinking beer before going to club.


To the thread:
Haha, nice one Player Supreme! :p
Yeah, you are the one who PM'd her for sure!

Anyways, to be honest I've never thought it from this point of view that those dear capitalist sell the AFC'ism to BOTH genres EQUALLY.
I've always concentrated on FINE women and I've been thinking lately that every women is like this. I have just ignored the normal girls who get all the same bull**** advice and leading them to buy more things to get men.
Personally thanks for a reminder that we have some great power on our hands us men!

I know this stuff already though, but it was just nice to hear it from a female. :D

Hahah, soooo many hearts I've broke.
Yet, more I do it, more I love it.
Just like those attractive looking women!

The one who is in control has gives those tests and games and the one who is getting dominated always loses and ends up heart broken. That's how it is.
 

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Originally posted by Dukester
sorry sea breeze- i didnt read your stuff much early on.
that's cool that ya dad was like that. my dad wuz a complete **** up, and taught me how to downgrade and hate women.

probably part of the reason why i WAS and AFC
NAH, I think it was you mother that told you to be nice.
 

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
NAH, I think it was you mother that told you to be nice.
umm no- i totally rebel against my mom-
she fvcking hates me, and we havent spoke in 4ever
 

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Hot Ice,

No. Playa Supreme wasn't the one that I was winking at, but he did send me a respectful PM.

And let me clear this up, it's the very pretty and beautiful girls who are the most insecure. They are the ones that you guys are more afraid of so they get WAY less action than the average ones. Sometimes they end up being sluts because all men want to do is have sex with them but they are afraid to actually have a relationship with them. It seems like most guys pick the average girls for relationships and the beautiful girls get left out in the cold.
Seabreeze
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by seabreeze
Hot Ice,

No. Playa Supreme wasn't the one that I was winking at, but he did send me a respectful PM.

And let me clear this up, it's the very pretty and beautiful girls who are the most insecure. They are the ones that you guys are more afraid of so they get WAY less action than the average ones. Sometimes they end up being sluts because all men want to do is have sex with them but they are afraid to actually have a relationship with them. It seems like most guys pick the average girls for relationships and the beautiful girls get left out in the cold.
Seabreeze
no way seabreeze. then how come the extremely hot girls are always b!tchy. i know that is generalizing, but it always seems like that- like they are too good for everyone
 

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take the advice you gave me.

if they are *****es..dont fall to it..play along..be a **** back..if they dontlike it..next her. until u devevlop the extrememe confidence to deal with those women.
 

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Ladies night over here at sosuave.
 

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oh i know friv. i kno. i was just wondering cuz she just said that it's the 8's and 9's that are the most insecure. j/w why in the fvck they act like that
maybe to protect themselves i guess. dude, i have so much confidence, it's not even funny.
 

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Dukester,

It's a pre-emptive strike! I don't know why this is, but every girl that i know that I would consider very attractive (and I'm not gay!), has had Daddy-issues. That is, daddy left mommy, daddy never came around, I don't trust daddy, thus I don't trust men. My Dad left us, but instead of hating him, it made me appreciate him more. So, the opposite happened to me. I realized how valuable men are. But, sometimes men sleep with beautiful women and then shy away from them when it's time to have a relationship with them. It's like men fall in lust with the beautiful ones and fall in love with the average ones. Beautiful women get tired of that kind of rejection and after a while they turn bitter. Add that to the Daddy-issue and whammo---you've got a beautiful woman with a funky-ass attitude.

Does this help?
SB
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by seabreeze
Hot Ice,

No. Playa Supreme wasn't the one that I was winking at, but he did send me a respectful PM.

And let me clear this up, it's the very pretty and beautiful girls who are the most insecure. They are the ones that you guys are more afraid of so they get WAY less action than the average ones. Sometimes they end up being sluts because all men want to do is have sex with them but they are afraid to actually have a relationship with them. It seems like most guys pick the average girls for relationships and the beautiful girls get left out in the cold.
Seabreeze
Haha so true.

I told myself the other day that from now on when I go out I'm just going to focus on the hottest chicks.

But then sometimes the hottest chicks get ALL the attention...usually from 11:30 onward, once everyone's good-n-drunk.
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Ladies night over here at sosuave.
Hahahhaahha!
Right on the point!


Yeah, I knew that beautiful girls are insecure as SB said and also b!tchy as Dukester said. They are it both.

I'll continue drinking beer.
 

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im in my 47th hour of work this week..I need a damn beer too!

but ill take a nap first
 

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What's so funny with drinking beer?

"A man's gotta do what man's gotta do!" ;) :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Dukester
nothing funny- i do it too. it's just you've said it a million times. seems like you'd be drunk by now
By the time I said it was the 2nd time. Totally I've said it 3 times.. ;)

I'm out.

Or 3rd and 4th... who the fawk cares!
 
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