"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey, remind me!

moneyisking

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Hello guys, I have been busy a lot so couldn't visit here lately, but I am facing some troubles (as always) with women.

For those that don't know me, I don't get laid and I need help... lol



I have been working everyday as server in a prestigious restaurants and been very busy, and I just lately feel like I have lost the touch with all the game things completely.

Of course, I haven't been good with it before, but now it seems worse. I can't flirt no more and not even to girls that seem like flirting to me (which doesn't happen usually). I also ended up not being "cool" with most of female servers there. They probably think I am a prick.

I don't know. It feels like I don't know anything anymore. I don't know how to talk, react, flirt, and what kind of state or mind I must be in. I am totally fvcked and fried in the brain. Let's say I just lost the touch of game.

Sh!t, kind of sad why my life has to be like this, but Don Juan never backs down. I still haven't given up on being a great man who can live life with happiness, purpose and feel great. I hope the day will come. Help me out
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HolyG

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Man up and start flirting. You know what you have to do - you just aint doing it.

Crack jokes, be social. Flirt on your coworkers, and socialize and take a legit interest in your customers. Pop a big smile and make them feel at home. Basically act like everyone is your best friend. Then laugh as they start treating you the same way.

Being a server is an extremely social job. You're paid to talk to people! What more could you want?
 
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