"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey, remind me!

moneyisking

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Hello guys, I have been busy a lot so couldn't visit here lately, but I am facing some troubles (as always) with women.

For those that don't know me, I don't get laid and I need help... lol



I have been working everyday as server in a prestigious restaurants and been very busy, and I just lately feel like I have lost the touch with all the game things completely.

Of course, I haven't been good with it before, but now it seems worse. I can't flirt no more and not even to girls that seem like flirting to me (which doesn't happen usually). I also ended up not being "cool" with most of female servers there. They probably think I am a prick.

I don't know. It feels like I don't know anything anymore. I don't know how to talk, react, flirt, and what kind of state or mind I must be in. I am totally fvcked and fried in the brain. Let's say I just lost the touch of game.

Sh!t, kind of sad why my life has to be like this, but Don Juan never backs down. I still haven't given up on being a great man who can live life with happiness, purpose and feel great. I hope the day will come. Help me out
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HolyG

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Man up and start flirting. You know what you have to do - you just aint doing it.

Crack jokes, be social. Flirt on your coworkers, and socialize and take a legit interest in your customers. Pop a big smile and make them feel at home. Basically act like everyone is your best friend. Then laugh as they start treating you the same way.

Being a server is an extremely social job. You're paid to talk to people! What more could you want?
 
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