"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey, remind me!

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moneyisking

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Hello guys, I have been busy a lot so couldn't visit here lately, but I am facing some troubles (as always) with women.

For those that don't know me, I don't get laid and I need help... lol



I have been working everyday as server in a prestigious restaurants and been very busy, and I just lately feel like I have lost the touch with all the game things completely.

Of course, I haven't been good with it before, but now it seems worse. I can't flirt no more and not even to girls that seem like flirting to me (which doesn't happen usually). I also ended up not being "cool" with most of female servers there. They probably think I am a prick.

I don't know. It feels like I don't know anything anymore. I don't know how to talk, react, flirt, and what kind of state or mind I must be in. I am totally fvcked and fried in the brain. Let's say I just lost the touch of game.

Sh!t, kind of sad why my life has to be like this, but Don Juan never backs down. I still haven't given up on being a great man who can live life with happiness, purpose and feel great. I hope the day will come. Help me out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HolyG

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Man up and start flirting. You know what you have to do - you just aint doing it.

Crack jokes, be social. Flirt on your coworkers, and socialize and take a legit interest in your customers. Pop a big smile and make them feel at home. Basically act like everyone is your best friend. Then laugh as they start treating you the same way.

Being a server is an extremely social job. You're paid to talk to people! What more could you want?
 
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