"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Hey put a shirt on!!"

MikeYikes122

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Anyone else ever get sick of people yelling sh!t like this when you're running outside without a shirt on?

The irony of it is, the people who usually yell crap like this haven't the faintest idea what it's like to run outside when it's 85 degrees and sunny. And boy, does it take stones to yell at a guy who is exhausted and on his fourth mile.

What a bunch of friggin haters :box:

Though, it is nice when girls honk. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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penkitten

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i've never been allowed to run outside frolicking and basking in the sunshine without a shirt on either...
 

int3l

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well pen, perks of being a woman i guess.

Kerpal, aren't you like, super attractive?
 

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MikeYikes122 said:
Anyone else ever get sick of people yelling sh!t like this when you're running outside without a shirt on?

I've never had that happen. Only people who say anything are girls and it's usually them staring, a wave out the window, or a "woooooo" especially if it's a carful of girls since they are bolder in packs. I don't even necessarily think the girls think you're hot or anything because they yell. They yell because they feel like yelling for fun.

I don't run. I just walk.

When i had a paper route i had a guy try to hit me with windshield wiper fluid. I hit his car with a rock afterwards.


Kerpal said:
I honestly have no idea how attractive I am.
Yeah i've been trying to figure that out about myself. Some girls think i'm super hot and then a lot don't seem to care at all. Even if you put your pics on hotornot it doesn't really seem to matter since there's lots of ugly people on there with 8s and 9s and it changes so drastically given stupid sh1t like if you're wearing sunglasses or not.

I look in the mirror and i really don't know what people see. Almost all girls are crazy about my eyes but they look like everyone else's to me. bah.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alle_Gory

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penkitten said:
i've never been allowed to run outside frolicking and basking in the sunshine without a shirt on either...
Yeah. I'm disappointed too.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Yeah i've been trying to figure that out about myself. Some girls think i'm super hot and then a lot don't seem to care at all. Even if you put your pics on hotornot it doesn't really seem to matter since there's lots of ugly people on there with 8s and 9s and it changes so drastically given stupid sh1t like if you're wearing sunglasses or not.

I look in the mirror and i really don't know what people see. Almost all girls are crazy about my eyes but they look like everyone else's to me. bah.
well girls have different tastes. some girls go for the pretty boys, some like the muscular men. u cant attract everyone
 

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pretty boy + muscles for the win =) haha


but yah i know you can't attract every girl out there, but u can always improve your odds to get as close as possible
 

MikeYikes122

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mrRuckus said:
Yeah i've been trying to figure that out about myself. Some girls think i'm super hot and then a lot don't seem to care at all. Even if you put your pics on hotornot it doesn't really seem to matter since there's lots of ugly people on there with 8s and 9s and it changes so drastically given stupid sh1t like if you're wearing sunglasses or not.

I look in the mirror and i really don't know what people see. Almost all girls are crazy about my eyes but they look like everyone else's to me. bah.
I agree HotorNot seems worthless.

I just try not to think about how I look. It seems to be a question that really doesn't have a right answer. I think I look good and I try to approach girls with that assumption.
 
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