"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Hey put a shirt on!!"

MikeYikes122

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Anyone else ever get sick of people yelling sh!t like this when you're running outside without a shirt on?

The irony of it is, the people who usually yell crap like this haven't the faintest idea what it's like to run outside when it's 85 degrees and sunny. And boy, does it take stones to yell at a guy who is exhausted and on his fourth mile.

What a bunch of friggin haters :box:

Though, it is nice when girls honk. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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i've never been allowed to run outside frolicking and basking in the sunshine without a shirt on either...
 

int3l

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well pen, perks of being a woman i guess.

Kerpal, aren't you like, super attractive?
 

mrRuckus

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MikeYikes122 said:
Anyone else ever get sick of people yelling sh!t like this when you're running outside without a shirt on?

I've never had that happen. Only people who say anything are girls and it's usually them staring, a wave out the window, or a "woooooo" especially if it's a carful of girls since they are bolder in packs. I don't even necessarily think the girls think you're hot or anything because they yell. They yell because they feel like yelling for fun.

I don't run. I just walk.

When i had a paper route i had a guy try to hit me with windshield wiper fluid. I hit his car with a rock afterwards.


Kerpal said:
I honestly have no idea how attractive I am.
Yeah i've been trying to figure that out about myself. Some girls think i'm super hot and then a lot don't seem to care at all. Even if you put your pics on hotornot it doesn't really seem to matter since there's lots of ugly people on there with 8s and 9s and it changes so drastically given stupid sh1t like if you're wearing sunglasses or not.

I look in the mirror and i really don't know what people see. Almost all girls are crazy about my eyes but they look like everyone else's to me. bah.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alle_Gory

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penkitten said:
i've never been allowed to run outside frolicking and basking in the sunshine without a shirt on either...
Yeah. I'm disappointed too.
 

The Kidd

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mrRuckus said:
Yeah i've been trying to figure that out about myself. Some girls think i'm super hot and then a lot don't seem to care at all. Even if you put your pics on hotornot it doesn't really seem to matter since there's lots of ugly people on there with 8s and 9s and it changes so drastically given stupid sh1t like if you're wearing sunglasses or not.

I look in the mirror and i really don't know what people see. Almost all girls are crazy about my eyes but they look like everyone else's to me. bah.
well girls have different tastes. some girls go for the pretty boys, some like the muscular men. u cant attract everyone
 

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pretty boy + muscles for the win =) haha


but yah i know you can't attract every girl out there, but u can always improve your odds to get as close as possible
 

MikeYikes122

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mrRuckus said:
Yeah i've been trying to figure that out about myself. Some girls think i'm super hot and then a lot don't seem to care at all. Even if you put your pics on hotornot it doesn't really seem to matter since there's lots of ugly people on there with 8s and 9s and it changes so drastically given stupid sh1t like if you're wearing sunglasses or not.

I look in the mirror and i really don't know what people see. Almost all girls are crazy about my eyes but they look like everyone else's to me. bah.
I agree HotorNot seems worthless.

I just try not to think about how I look. It seems to be a question that really doesn't have a right answer. I think I look good and I try to approach girls with that assumption.
 
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