Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hey people! please review my POF profile. thanks!

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ok, ninja, I'll bite. what's wrong with it?
go ahead and flame me. give me your worst!
 

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seriously, give me a laundry list of things i need to fix!
 

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Asterisk said:
Yeah, I already know i need more pics, as I only have two right now,
but other than that, how is it so far?

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=47781897

Constructive criticism would be appreciated. Thank you.


Is this a new Napoleon Dynamite character?

Sorry if that sounds mean...but when a woman looks at that, she will think mean things as well.

The pics need to be changed....old jeans with a chain..that may be your style but you could at least lose them in the pics...and your profile content reeks of trying to be Mr. nice guy...you are acting like a white knight...but the biggest things are the pics...try to get some better ones.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Napoleon Dynamite?!?!?! I hated that movie!
are you saying my profile is boring?
what can I do to spice it up?
 

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what can I do to spice it up?

Spice it up by deleting your profile permanently and restraining yourself from even entertaining the thought of putting a new one up.

No chick wants to be fvcked by Jesus. Unless she's Linda Blair. Trolllololol.
 

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now we're getting somewhere! white knight huh?
what parts specifically are white knightish?
as for the pics what would you suggest?
ninja, i know i said give me your worst, but i was joking....
give me something i can use.
 

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read Naughty Ninjas other posts about POF profiles.

then apply the described technique.
 

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thank you pdx.
already read ninja's post, that's where i got the idea.
i'm doing what i can, but if i didn't need help,
i wouldn't be at sosuave in the first place.
now i'm looking for ways to tweak my profile so it looks good.
but, i need more specifics......
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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for starters, you can't even see what your face looks like...you need more desirable looking pics...as far as being white knightish...you talk about how much of a gentleman you are and all of this and the whole poking war thing is strange sounding although i know what you are talking about...do you even mention what kind of woman you are looking for or what is your type? also need to make it more fun sounding.....lose the talking about yourself in the nice guy way crap...it just doesn't come off good...but change the pictures above all...your messages are all going straight to the delete box i can bet before they even read what you wrote....are you actually getting many responses with this from decent looking girls???
 

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actually, i haven't sent out any messages yet.
i figured i would just set it up and then tweak it 'till it looks good
get it reviewed and fine tune it before i do anything with it
bounce ideas off the djs here and see what i can do.
i just set up yesterday.
 

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the middle pic make you fake remove it .
your "I dont bite " mean no girl is messaging you , remove this head line
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't see what is wrong with his profile,

hes a typical 80s kind of metal guy.

In the 80s everyone looked like him.

So what is the problem?
 

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EuropePUA said:
I don't see what is wrong with his profile,

hes a typical 80s kind of metal guy.

In the 80s everyone looked like him.

So what is the problem?
Umm, maybe the fact that its not the 80's anymore? Its the twenty-teens~

I'm getting into the real preppy look these days. I think that is going to be the next really hip fashion style for men.

check out www.trashness.com
 

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OP, have you tried sarging at heavy metal concerts?

Go to a Metallica concert and work your game there,

those metal chicks with 50 piercings in their lip and dyed black hair would totally dig you.
 

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Somebody actually gets my style!
EuropePUA, you make a good point about demographics,
I mostly attract goth chicks, punk chicks, and juggalettes.
for some reason everybody thinks I'm a juggalo....
unfortunately, don't have money to travel the states...
so i guess i'll have to search the net for metal concerts in my area.
but yeah, i was born in the 80s, so it suits me just fine.
i still need more pics though.
what else can do to make my profile better?
 

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Asterisk said:
Somebody actually gets my style!
EuropePUA, you make a good point about demographics,
I mostly attract goth chicks, punk chicks, and juggalettes.
for some reason everybody thinks I'm a juggalo....
unfortunately, don't have money to travel the states...
so i guess i'll have to search the net for metal concerts in my area.
but yeah, i was born in the 80s, so it suits me just fine.
i still need more pics though.
what else can do to make my profile better?
Chicks really dig White guys,

You have to make it obvious in your profile that you are "white".

Instead of the username "Gamble4tacos", change it to

"WhiteGuy4You"

Dude if I was a white guy like you I would be pimping.

Unfortunately I am not white, so there will be no pimping for me.

You must get girls all the time. Be honest now?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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