"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey people! please review my POF profile. thanks!

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ok, ninja, I'll bite. what's wrong with it?
go ahead and flame me. give me your worst!
 

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seriously, give me a laundry list of things i need to fix!
 

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Asterisk said:
Yeah, I already know i need more pics, as I only have two right now,
but other than that, how is it so far?

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=47781897

Constructive criticism would be appreciated. Thank you.


Is this a new Napoleon Dynamite character?

Sorry if that sounds mean...but when a woman looks at that, she will think mean things as well.

The pics need to be changed....old jeans with a chain..that may be your style but you could at least lose them in the pics...and your profile content reeks of trying to be Mr. nice guy...you are acting like a white knight...but the biggest things are the pics...try to get some better ones.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Napoleon Dynamite?!?!?! I hated that movie!
are you saying my profile is boring?
what can I do to spice it up?
 

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what can I do to spice it up?

Spice it up by deleting your profile permanently and restraining yourself from even entertaining the thought of putting a new one up.

No chick wants to be fvcked by Jesus. Unless she's Linda Blair. Trolllololol.
 

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now we're getting somewhere! white knight huh?
what parts specifically are white knightish?
as for the pics what would you suggest?
ninja, i know i said give me your worst, but i was joking....
give me something i can use.
 

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read Naughty Ninjas other posts about POF profiles.

then apply the described technique.
 

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thank you pdx.
already read ninja's post, that's where i got the idea.
i'm doing what i can, but if i didn't need help,
i wouldn't be at sosuave in the first place.
now i'm looking for ways to tweak my profile so it looks good.
but, i need more specifics......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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for starters, you can't even see what your face looks like...you need more desirable looking pics...as far as being white knightish...you talk about how much of a gentleman you are and all of this and the whole poking war thing is strange sounding although i know what you are talking about...do you even mention what kind of woman you are looking for or what is your type? also need to make it more fun sounding.....lose the talking about yourself in the nice guy way crap...it just doesn't come off good...but change the pictures above all...your messages are all going straight to the delete box i can bet before they even read what you wrote....are you actually getting many responses with this from decent looking girls???
 

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actually, i haven't sent out any messages yet.
i figured i would just set it up and then tweak it 'till it looks good
get it reviewed and fine tune it before i do anything with it
bounce ideas off the djs here and see what i can do.
i just set up yesterday.
 

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the middle pic make you fake remove it .
your "I dont bite " mean no girl is messaging you , remove this head line
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't see what is wrong with his profile,

hes a typical 80s kind of metal guy.

In the 80s everyone looked like him.

So what is the problem?
 

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EuropePUA said:
I don't see what is wrong with his profile,

hes a typical 80s kind of metal guy.

In the 80s everyone looked like him.

So what is the problem?
Umm, maybe the fact that its not the 80's anymore? Its the twenty-teens~

I'm getting into the real preppy look these days. I think that is going to be the next really hip fashion style for men.

check out www.trashness.com
 

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OP, have you tried sarging at heavy metal concerts?

Go to a Metallica concert and work your game there,

those metal chicks with 50 piercings in their lip and dyed black hair would totally dig you.
 

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Somebody actually gets my style!
EuropePUA, you make a good point about demographics,
I mostly attract goth chicks, punk chicks, and juggalettes.
for some reason everybody thinks I'm a juggalo....
unfortunately, don't have money to travel the states...
so i guess i'll have to search the net for metal concerts in my area.
but yeah, i was born in the 80s, so it suits me just fine.
i still need more pics though.
what else can do to make my profile better?
 

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Asterisk said:
Somebody actually gets my style!
EuropePUA, you make a good point about demographics,
I mostly attract goth chicks, punk chicks, and juggalettes.
for some reason everybody thinks I'm a juggalo....
unfortunately, don't have money to travel the states...
so i guess i'll have to search the net for metal concerts in my area.
but yeah, i was born in the 80s, so it suits me just fine.
i still need more pics though.
what else can do to make my profile better?
Chicks really dig White guys,

You have to make it obvious in your profile that you are "white".

Instead of the username "Gamble4tacos", change it to

"WhiteGuy4You"

Dude if I was a white guy like you I would be pimping.

Unfortunately I am not white, so there will be no pimping for me.

You must get girls all the time. Be honest now?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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