"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey Millennials, Do you Call or Text?

Drummer93

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Hey guys,

I am sure you guys get this asked a lot but I want to be clear about something, I am 27 years old and I have dated A LOT of younger women who prefers texting over phone calls. I don't care what they prefer however it just seems like no one likes using the phone and I guess most like the convenience of sending messages and some using it as a safety net. I would much rather use phone then text however it's not a deal breaker to me, I just think phone is more of an authentic way of communication.

So for you millennials out there, if you are reaching a woman to set a date, do you do it through text or through a phone call? If by phone and you reach her voicemail, do you say at the end of the message for her to hit you up when shes gets the message or i'll talk to you later?

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kraytkiller

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At my age my general reception has been it's weird if I try to call, either by ordering, just doing, or asking, it's all been less effective than just a solid text game...

That being said, most of my pulls lately are off the internet, due to (excuses excuses), so things might be different if I had a chance to build strong rapport and frame in person.

But texting imo is fine and in this day and age, you better get adapted to it
 

ArcBound

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Highschool and below calling is very good.

Anything above that text. You don't know their work, college schedule and most of the time when you call, it might be a bad time to call. Only start calling them once you are going out for a bit and you know times when they are free.
 

PimpOfTheSouth

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Ayye Drummer you are considered a Millenial as well! You are right in the age range.
 

Dhoulmagus

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I hate calling unless I need to know something asap and we already know each other.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zekko

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I'm not a millennial, not by a long shot lol, but if someone calls me I won't even answer the phone. Best way to reach me and get a response is to text. I fvcking HATE telephones. Yak yak yak, screw that noise.

All this old school stuff about "a real man calls", great way to get your call to go directly to voice mail, lol.
 
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