"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey Millennials, Do you Call or Text?

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Hey guys,

I am sure you guys get this asked a lot but I want to be clear about something, I am 27 years old and I have dated A LOT of younger women who prefers texting over phone calls. I don't care what they prefer however it just seems like no one likes using the phone and I guess most like the convenience of sending messages and some using it as a safety net. I would much rather use phone then text however it's not a deal breaker to me, I just think phone is more of an authentic way of communication.

So for you millennials out there, if you are reaching a woman to set a date, do you do it through text or through a phone call? If by phone and you reach her voicemail, do you say at the end of the message for her to hit you up when shes gets the message or i'll talk to you later?

Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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At my age my general reception has been it's weird if I try to call, either by ordering, just doing, or asking, it's all been less effective than just a solid text game...

That being said, most of my pulls lately are off the internet, due to (excuses excuses), so things might be different if I had a chance to build strong rapport and frame in person.

But texting imo is fine and in this day and age, you better get adapted to it
 
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Highschool and below calling is very good.

Anything above that text. You don't know their work, college schedule and most of the time when you call, it might be a bad time to call. Only start calling them once you are going out for a bit and you know times when they are free.
 
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Ayye Drummer you are considered a Millenial as well! You are right in the age range.
 
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I hate calling unless I need to know something asap and we already know each other.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm not a millennial, not by a long shot lol, but if someone calls me I won't even answer the phone. Best way to reach me and get a response is to text. I fvcking HATE telephones. Yak yak yak, screw that noise.

All this old school stuff about "a real man calls", great way to get your call to go directly to voice mail, lol.
 
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